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First, there's no way you're going to tell me that children don't understand that other people are separate people until the age of 6. I know a 3 year old and a 4 year old that are very conscience of the fact that there are other people besides themselves.
But they don't understand that these have thoughts and feelings and desires like themselves. Their world view is still almost completely ego-centric.
Second, and I've said this before plenty of times, the choice should be made BEFORE sex not after.
I know but no matter how often you say it, that doesn't make it more true. You do not seem to understand the consequences of that stance nor that the reasons you judge it on are groundless, no matter how foolish your arguments look when we shed some decent light on them, whether from a theological, social or scientific perspective, and so I'm ready to give up on you.
You know what really makes me mad about pro-choice concepts? Is that there are married couples all over this country that through no fault of their own either have difficulty or simply can't have children. Then you have the people just killing them off because they'd be a nuisance or the woman doesn't feel like going to term because of the "parasitic" experience.
Then let them simply pay someone to do so.
Life is absolutely precious and if you engage in activities that are going to produce a new life, then you should be prepared to accept them. If you engage in smoking, don't be surprised if you get cancer. If you engage in drinking don't be surprised to have liver disease. If you have sex with someone, especially not your spouse, don't be surprised to get AIDS, another STD or pregnant.
How does having sex with someone not your spouse increase the chances that you get pregnant? (I wonder what you'd make of the fact that having extramarital sex increases the chance you get pregnant, or, for that matter, even thinking about another woman while having sex with your own ... )
When you have sex, take precautions, and still get pregnant, you can have an abortion, and you can do so without any moral or legal concerns other than those you choose to entertain yourselfs easily up to the 16th week of pregnancy, period. If your parents failed to educate you about safe sex, and you succumb to powerful pheromones and hormones, you have the right to choose for an abortion, period. Heck, even if you succumbed to the strong urges that hormones put into you and that results in a pregnancy that is not beneficial to you, you can have that abortion, period. (somehow, I find the use of the word period appropriate in this paragraph)
Your "new life" is only marginally more precious than fertile cells stored in a womans ovary of which one is dumped each month, and almost as easily created. A person is an investment and an independent individual capable of suffering, and represents a great investment in terms of carrying a pregnancy to term, labor, medical support, care, and so on.
The transition from your "new life" to a person is a gradual one in terms of subjective appreciation from the parents and society, but in terms of something that deserves the protection of the state overruling the souvereignty a woman has over her own body, life certainly does not begin at conception.