Your 1st Kiss...

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And can you feel what happens in your dream? Like say you walk over to a car, and touch the bonnet, do you feel like you actually touched it in real life?
 
But the thing is how do you get the girls to like you in the first place?

IMO, its a luck thing. There's a large chance that all of you have had a girl like you. Just be yourself, and a girl will like you. Some will like you from the instant they see you. Some will like you after a while. Its really a chance thing. However, they won't show it. It will be hard for you to know for sure. Just let her talk to you for a while, don't get friendzoned either. After talking to her for about a week you will most likely understand by her behavior (both physical and verbal) that she cares and likes you (or not). Then SLOWLY (but not too slowly) start opening yourself up and showing your interest in her. If you go too fast she might freak out also.
 
And can you feel what happens in your dream? Like say you walk over to a car, and touch the bonnet, do you feel like you actually touched it in real life?

Yeah, that's the point of lucid dreaming.

The sad part is, you realize it's not real after you wake up. But as I said earlier - the feeling of being in a lucid dream is unbelievable, and totally worth all the failed attempts. No problems and worries at all; everything is just about perfect.

Your dream car? *point + wish* Here you go!
Flying? Just think of it and it'll be your primary ability.
Everyone on helium? No problem!
Anything!!!
 
And can you feel what happens in your dream? Like say you walk over to a car, and touch the bonnet, do you feel like you actually touched it in real life?

I'm about to go to bed... let me try out this lucid dream stuff and see if I can get a first kiss :sly: .

EDIT: Holy 🤬 ! I managed to get a lucid dream on my first try... damn I got kissed and it felt so real :ouch: ...

Anyways, moving on. I am getting closer to getting my first kiss because there's a girl in my school showing interest in me... *excited* :D .
 
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Lucid dreaming is real.

I don't think I understand your answer completely.

Care to explain? :)

A lucid dream is controlling what you say,do,act in your dream, imagine what you want in your dream.

It's like your in your own reality, literally.

And so on.. . .

"I promise you the secrets of the Universe, nothing more." ;)

Good to see a thread dedicated to that topic; as well - there are many different 'Relationship' threads that would benefit from your discussions over the last few pages, about relationships, and family, religious, and physical, and age incompatibilities. Look for them; they are chock-ful of . . ahem, well stuff that may be useful.

This is a 'Kiss and Tell' pow-wow. So let's huddle: No! Stand back. Let me put some stuff on the table.

The First Kiss between Kate and William was very important to many people - so much so that they had to do it over to get it right; a reaffirmation of the commitment as such. But as to whether it was their real First Kiss - only they would know.

"You may now kiss," says the village Headman after marrying you. (Usually.)

Judas' First Kiss was one of betrayal.

And finally - as was so beautifully put here; to see whether you eat as hot as you look.

Morris, (author of The Naked Ape) as mentioned earlier, proposed that kissing evolved from the practise of primate mothers chewing food in their mouths and with puckered lips spouted that sludge into the mouths of their young. Chimps feed this way. Probably our Hominid ancestors did this, too. Even I, as a parent, have chewed bits of meat and (by hand of course) put the softened stuff into my toddler's mouths. So when a primate shoves a tongue into another's mouth, they're looking for bits of leftover food. Even today, bonobos (who are genetically fairly similar to us) are passionate this way about food; Primatologist Frans B. M. de Waal, for instance, has on record that while one of the bonobos was kissing a zookeeper on the face with the usual affection that bonobos display, slyly slipped him the tongue - and he had a whole mouthful of bonobo tongue before he realised it!
But there is a lot more to this than hunger.
Gallup reported a few years ago that in a survey taken, almost sixty percent of men, and very nearly seventy percent of women admitted they had ben interested in someone only to have their interest evaporate immediately after their first kiss. It wasn't that the kiss was bad or not skillfully executed; it just felt somehow wrong. The kiss of death - romantic death, that is.

Noticeably abundant in this thread are posts by males saying that it was the female that 'grabbed' them first (apart from one young lady who claims it was the other way around.) Further findings by Gallup shows that kissing plays a crucial role in a partnership - but that men and women view it from different angles.
According to their polls, men use a kiss to take it to the next level, sexually (reproductively). But while women, too, want to take it to the next level - they have a greater and longer investment in the reproductive process. For her - it doesn't end with the act of conception - it is merely the beginning. So they need to be pickier with whom they partner with. That first kiss is a measure of the commitment the female senses when being kissed by the male. No enthusiasm, no passion, (and a dry mouth that bespeaks starvation) is a fallen barometer of that males eligibility as a male who will 'stick around'.

And then there are the pheromones . . . but will discuss more as we go along, I guess.
For now - if you are young and not had your first kiss yet - don't be in a hurry to spoil your own personal fairy tale. There's plenty to do as young folk in love. Hold hands. Put an arm around a shoulder or a waist - kiss a hand, kiss a cheek. Mouth to mouth resustication (or osculation - if you want the 'proper' word) can be distracting if you are still school-going. Distracting to the point of making you a failure in later life - not a good qualification for keeping a partner, let alone finding another one.

To leave those who are already kissers with a point to ponder; note which side you tilt your head to when you kiss. ;) 👍
 
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Chloroform is..? Sorry but i've never heard this word before :lol: does it mean reality?

Chloroform is a drug that puts you to sleep by inhaling it. Often 'used' in movies to kidnap people.
 
I was on a school bus, on te way back from a school trip. The London skyline was in the background, the buildings of Canary Wharf lighting up the sky. She liked me, I liked her, and we kissed...

Basically, on school bus by girl I like, kissed, end of story.
 
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I was on a school bus, on te way back from a school trip. The London skyline was in the background, the buildings of Canary Wharf lighting up the sky. She liked me, I liked her, and we kissed...

Basically, on school bus by girl I like, kissed, end of story.

Lucky! :grumpy:

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IMO, its a luck thing. There's a large chance that all of you have had a girl like you. Just be yourself, and a girl will like you. Some will like you from the instant they see you. Some will like you after a while. Its really a chance thing. However, they won't show it. It will be hard for you to know for sure. Just let her talk to you for a while, don't get friendzoned either. After talking to her for about a week you will most likely understand by her behavior (both physical and verbal) that she cares and likes you (or not). Then SLOWLY (but not too slowly) start opening yourself up and showing your interest in her. If you go too fast she might freak out also.

All the ones that like me are butt ass ugly and it pisses me off.
 
Terrific attitude there, then. That'll do you wonders in life.

It's true though lol. I don't want them running around after me. I know the people I like and it's just awkward.
 
It's true though lol. I don't want them running around after me. I know the people I like and it's just awkward.
They might be ugly but they might be really nice people. I know a girl exactly like that.
 
It's true though lol. I don't want them running around after me. I know the people I like and it's just awkward.
Then tell them you're not interested.

But you're gonna have to be more lenient on looks though. Those girls can't be all that bad.
 
Then tell them you're not interested.

But you're gonna have to be more lenient on looks though. Those girls can't be all that bad.

Meh? I'm so desperate for a girlfriend I'd take almost any girl right now. Unless if they are really ugly..
 
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