I don't think I understand your answer completely.
Care to explain?
A lucid dream is controlling what you say,do,act in your dream, imagine what you want in your dream.
It's like your in your own reality, literally.
And so on.. . .
"I promise you the secrets of the Universe, nothing more."
Good to see a thread dedicated to
that topic; as well - there are many different 'Relationship' threads that would benefit from your discussions over the last few pages, about relationships, and family, religious, and physical, and age incompatibilities. Look for them; they are chock-ful of . . ahem, well stuff that may be useful.
This is a 'Kiss and Tell' pow-wow. So let's huddle: No! Stand back. Let me put some stuff on the table.
The First Kiss between Kate and William was very important to many people - so much so that they had to do it over to get it right; a reaffirmation of the commitment as such. But as to whether it was their
real First Kiss - only they would know.
"You may now kiss," says the village Headman after marrying you. (Usually.)
Judas' First Kiss was one of betrayal.
And finally - as was so beautifully put here; to see whether you eat as hot as you look.
Morris, (author of
The Naked Ape) as mentioned earlier, proposed that kissing evolved from the practise of primate mothers chewing food in their mouths and with puckered lips spouted that sludge into the mouths of their young. Chimps feed this way. Probably our Hominid ancestors did this, too. Even I, as a parent, have chewed bits of meat and (by hand of course) put the softened stuff into my toddler's mouths. So when a primate shoves a tongue into another's mouth, they're looking for bits of leftover food. Even today, bonobos (who are genetically fairly similar to us) are passionate this way about food; Primatologist Frans B. M. de Waal, for instance, has on record that while one of the bonobos was kissing a zookeeper on the face with the usual affection that bonobos display, slyly slipped him the tongue - and he had a whole mouthful of bonobo tongue before he realised it!
But there is a lot more to this than hunger.
Gallup reported a few years ago that in a survey taken, almost sixty percent of men, and very nearly seventy percent of women admitted they had ben interested in someone only to have their interest evaporate immediately after their first kiss. It wasn't that the kiss was bad or not skillfully executed; it just felt somehow wrong. The kiss of death - romantic death, that is.
Noticeably abundant in this thread are posts by males saying that it was the female that 'grabbed' them first (apart from one young lady who claims it was the other way around.) Further findings by Gallup shows that kissing plays a crucial role in a partnership - but that men and women view it from different angles.
According to their polls, men use a kiss to take it to the next level, sexually (reproductively). But while women, too, want to take it to the next level - they have a greater and longer investment in the reproductive process. For her - it doesn't end with the act of conception - it is merely the beginning. So they need to be pickier with whom they partner with. That first kiss is a measure of the commitment the female senses when being kissed by the male. No enthusiasm, no passion, (and a dry mouth that bespeaks starvation) is a fallen barometer of that males eligibility as a male who will 'stick around'.
And then there are the pheromones . . . but will discuss more as we go along, I guess.
For now - if you are young and not had your first kiss yet - don't be in a hurry to spoil your own personal fairy tale. There's plenty to do as young folk in love. Hold hands. Put an arm around a shoulder or a waist - kiss a hand, kiss a cheek. Mouth to mouth resustication (or osculation - if you want the 'proper' word) can be distracting if you are still school-going. Distracting to the point of making you a failure in later life - not a good qualification for keeping a partner, let alone finding another one.
To leave those who are already kissers with a point to ponder; note which side you tilt your head to when you kiss.
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