Your 1st Kiss...

[ITCC_Andrew]

I think she is beautiful, and I miss her everyday.

No, she just is. I'm going to just say, I hope she's not underaged for such a comment, but, I really mean it in a good way. It's a sort of, "if any of the girls I knew had a nice personality and looked like that, I'd be dating them, too.



Anyways, since people here want to hear about my goings-on, I might be about to meet a very smart girl. The wheels are in motion, I suppose. I really like blue eyed brunettes, and especially smart ones.

Problem is, I don't know if she lied to get onto the 18+ site, or not. I'm [legitimately] 19, (without lying) so, that could be an issue. It just seems like she has friends that aren't 18. That's understandable, but, does it mean she's their classmates? Or, does it mean that she's just friends with them, because she wants to be?

 

[adam46]

Yes Dean, it will. I'm spending my time at the moment searching for an outlet. Something to take my mind off things.

 

[m8h3r]

Just a couple of weeks ago with Joana, to Enter Shikari - Constellations.

 

[Madertus]

Yeah she blocked me. It was not a fun time. (...)

EDIT: For those of you who are wondering what this girl I'm going on about looks like, Here she is from Valentine's Day this year, I took the photo, hence the poor quality. I am not a photographer, but I know this is not a good photo of her. Only one I have on my laptop though, sorry.

I think she is beautiful, and I miss her everyday.

About her looks - wow, she's definitely something (it may sound wrong, but believe me - I don't mean anything offensive by that ).

But man, I don't think posting these is allowed here. Maybe AUP simply doesn't state it isn't allowed, but I for example would not post pics of my crush (unless I had her permission of course).

Also, I know you're having a DAMN hard time living without her. But you'll have to move on soon - if it turns out wrong, that is.

I mean... Nowadays, when someone blocks you on Facebook it doesn't mean anything 'good', really. It's likely she did it by accident, but still!

I'm not trying to take your mind off her; it is pretty much the last thing I think I'm supposed to do. I wish you all the best and want this situation to turn out good. I'm a pessimist, and I give people 'advice' in not the best way for them so they're not disappointed later, hypothetically.




Outside of that - I must thank you guys. If it wasn't for you, I'd still be struggling with my half-a-dozen-years trauma. I messaged the girl I was talking about, awaiting response now. The only thing I don't like about that is waiting. I'm no idea whether or not she's even gonna read that message. Maybe today? Tomorrow? In ten days? In a month? And I'm not even sure if she'll want to meet me.

Anyway, if it wasn't for you all guys, I'd still be unsure on if I should even bother.

Thank you.

Hope is simultaneously the best and the worst thing that could ever happen to anyone.

 

[ITCC_Andrew]

Something to take my mind off things.

Music?


Rallying?



Ice cream?




Puppies?

Other fish? (or, in this case, my dream fish?

Forgot: Everyone moves on differently, everyone passes time differently. Don't be offended, I'm just giving ideas.

 

[Antmeg26]

Music?


Rallying?



Ice cream?




Puppies?

Other fish? (or, in this case, my dream fish?

Forgot: Everyone moves on differently, everyone passes time differently. Don't be offended, I'm just giving ideas.

Puppies always work

 

[adam46]

Madertus;
Don't worry I don't take offence to it at all. Yeah thinking about it I am not sure if that's allowed but when we broke up she said I had to delete all the photos, apart from one of my choice, and I could 'do whatever I like' with that one. If it's against the rules, Moderators, contact me and I'll get rid of it. It is hard to try and move on, DAMN hard, as you rightly say. But I'm starting Basketball and Football (Soccer) once I am out of plaster alongside my swimming. Pair that up with my journalism and I should have plenty of material to move on with if that's what's needed. (I am basically certain it will be.)

I can assure you one thing though; The blocking of me by her was no accident, she made that clear. Don't worry, you aren't taking my mind off her, and I thank you for the hope. I am a pessimist also, and I find your advice good, so no worries!

And Mr Melancholy; I take no offence to that. I have two Jack Russells, a collection of Feeder's music, Ice Cream in the freezers and GT5, among others, near the PS3. So I am well covered. As for other fish? Hmm... well one girl shows half an interest but I'm not ready for anyone else just yet...

 

[ITCC_Andrew]

Well, if she's training to be an olympian, she might be rather famous, now.


Maybe she deleted her Facebook account? I can think of many times I've gone to see if so-and-so was on Facebook, or to send a message, and found that they're no longer on Facebook, at all. There are buttons to close your account. By pressing these buttons, every trace is removed, making it seem like you were blocked...


A friend of mine, named CoMa, for the sakes of this thread, recently created a new Facebook profile on her semi-private Facebook personal account. With a voice like hers, she was bound to meet the cruel reality of being scammed by lesser musicians, who stole her work. After that, hate mail started, and she closed her previous thread. She's now being more careful with her new account.


Anyways, considering CoMa's only got 8,000 fans (roughly,) I imagine it's possible that your aspiring Olympian friend might also be experiencing the rough side of fame. Facebook is the first thing to go, in those cases.

As for other fish? Hmm... well one girl shows half an interest but I'm not ready for anyone else just yet...

Yeah. But, I went from one girl, (she got boring) to a different girl, in less than an hour. I'm the opposite.


Then, the first girl firmly yelled at me. I just said "she asked me out, and I loved her last time she and I went out. Was I supposed to break her heart? No, she's a heartless vulture, but I'm not." Well, I'm only partially a vulture.

 

[adam46]

Well, if she's training to be an olympian, she might be rather famous, now.


Maybe she deleted her Facebook account? I can think of many times I've gone to see if so-and-so was on Facebook, or to send a message, and found that they're no longer on Facebook, at all. There are buttons to close your account. By pressing these buttons, every trace is removed, making it seem like you were blocked...


A friend of mine, named CoMa, for the sakes of this thread, recently created a new Facebook profile on her semi-private Facebook personal account. With a voice like hers, she was bound to meet the cruel reality of being scammed by lesser musicians, who stole her work. After that, hate mail started, and she closed her previous thread. She's now being more careful with her new account.


Anyways, considering CoMa's only got 8,000 fans (roughly,) I imagine it's possible that your aspiring Olympian friend might also be experiencing the rough side of fame. Facebook is the first thing to go, in those cases.

As for other fish? Hmm... well one girl shows half an interest but I'm not ready for anyone else just yet...

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Nahh she still has Facebook, she still talks with some of my friends. It was only me, I can deal with that. As for your predicament above with the maybe not 18 year old. I guess the best way to go is just to bide your time a little while and read into her personality and how she talks with the others. Not much good with this so I can't help you much...

 

[ITCC_Andrew]

Nahh she still has Facebook, she still talks with some of my friends. It was only me, I can deal with that. As for your predicament above with the maybe not 18 year old. I guess the best way to go is just to bide your time a little while and read into her personality and how she talks with the others. Not much good with this so I can't help you much...

Sorry for messing up the quote system, I edited my previous post.


Anyways, yeah, that sucks, man. Did you say anything out of place?


I mean, back in like Grades 2/3/4, I knew a deaf girl (actually legally deaf, incapable of hearing,) and we hit it off together well, but she moved to Australia. But, all I can remember is saying some out-of-place kids stuff, being a bit of a cynic, and being pretty naïve about sex. ed. classes... So, I mean, I don't know what to think of it.

Now, 12 years later, and a few bedroom experiences later, I can still say that I was out of place, and probably don't deserve to talk to her.


Thing is, I think Grade 3 is a bit soon to start giving kids sex talks, anyways. The Canadian government knows what's best, though, right?



As for the current girl of my interests, she's pretty enough, smart enough, and, I don't know about nice enough, but, probably nice enough. If she's old enough, it'll all likely work out immediately. Otherwise, I think I'll just avoid the bedroom stuff with her, 'til it's legal. Been there, done that, been scared because of that.

 

[nobuffalo]

I may have missed it but do you know why she blocked you?

I can think of three reasons a girl or guy would block someone from their facebook, someone they were in some sort of romantic relationship with.

1.They're being internet stalked or harassed by the person blocked.
2. They are in a new "romantic relationship" and don't want the old person to see.
3. They know you'll waste your time looking at what your missing, and are in a way trying to help you.

2 and 3 can go back to 1.

 

[adam46]

Sorry for messing up the quote system, I edited my previous post.


Anyways, yeah, that sucks, man. Did you say anything out of place?


I mean, back in like Grades 2/3/4, I knew a deaf girl (actually legally deaf, incapable of hearing,) and we hit it off together well, but she moved to Australia. But, all I can remember is saying some out-of-place kids stuff, being a bit of a cynic, and being pretty naïve about sex. ed. classes... So, I mean, I don't know what to think of it.

Now, 12 years later, and a few bedroom experiences later, I can still say that I was out of place, and probably don't deserve to talk to her.


Thing is, I think Grade 3 is a bit soon to start giving kids sex talks, anyways. The Canadian government knows what's best, though, right?



As for the current girl of my interests, she's pretty enough, smart enough, and, I don't know about nice enough, but, probably nice enough. If she's old enough, it'll all likely work out immediately. Otherwise, I think I'll just avoid the bedroom stuff with her, 'til it's legal. Been there, done that, been scared because of that.

No I just said to much. She isn't the type to like checking her Facebook of an evening to always find a message asking how her day went. But I'd forgotten that and was just hating the seperation so much I felt like I needed to. She got fed up and blocked me. My fault. There's your answer Casey. Not harrasment, maybe a combo of 1 and 3 I guess. Big mistake I regret 24/7.


But yeah, you were young. People have to make mistakes to learn lessons, that's one of my ways of viewing my situation. But yeah, wait until you know for sure about age and stuff...

Yours Sincerley,
The Fifteen Year Old...

 

[Flamedogg]

At least you guys are physicaly able to see the person you love and adore. I tend to think of those who I seek intrest in to be too far away from where I'm living right now...

 

[ITCC_Andrew]

No I just said to much. She isn't the type to like checking her Facebook of an evening to always find a message asking how her day went. But I'd forgotten that and was just hating the seperation so much I felt like I needed to. She got fed up and blocked me. My fault.


But yeah, you were young. People have to make mistakes to learn lessons, that's one of my ways of viewing my situation. But yeah, wait until you know for sure about age and stuff...

Yours Sincerley,
The Fifteen Year Old...

I'm 19 now. I'm still plenty young, and I've still got plenty of mistakes ahead.


But, I don't understand. In Grades 9/10/11, I was hot-property as a guy. (Insert above story of dating two girls in one day.) Now, high school's over, and I'm lucky to even see girls. In my case, what happened?

 

[adam46]

I'm 19 now. I'm still plenty young, and I've still got plenty of mistakes ahead.


But, I don't understand. In Grades 9/10/11, I was hot-property as a guy. (Insert above story of dating two girls in one day.) Now, high school's over, and I'm lucky to even see girls. In my case, what happened?

I'm asking the opposite. No one except her even thought to say hi to me before, now, at 15, everyone is suddenly all smiles, sympathy and suggestions.

And Flamedogg; I know how tough that can be, bad luck mate.

I swear myself and company have accidently turned this into 'Relationship Thread B'... Sorry.

 

[ITCC_Andrew]

I'm asking the opposite. No one except her even thought to say hi to me before, now, at 15, everyone is suddenly all smiles, sympathy and suggestions.

And Flamedogg; I know how tough that can be, bad luck mate.

I swear myself and company have accidently turned this into 'Relationship Thread B'... Sorry.

Don't apologize. People are open to post about the girls they first kissed. Notice: my first kisses, (depending on which version of which definition in which dictionary you want to use) are three of the four girls I've mentioned so far.

• Australian girl = fell, "accidental" kiss.
• First of two girls, one day = cheek peck, which she didn't like, leading, partially, to break up
• Second of two girls, on same day = first girl for real kiss, first girl for bedroom time, and first girl for many other things.

 

[adam46]

Don't apologize. People are open to post about the girls they first kissed. Notice: my first kisses, (depending on which version of which definition in which dictionary you want to use) are three of the four girls I've mentioned so far.

• Australian girl = fell, "accidental" kiss.
• First of two girls, one day = cheek peck, which she didn't like, leading, partially, to break up
• Second of two girls, on same day = first girl for real kiss, first girl for bedroom time, and first girl for many other things.

Okay then. Yeah. She's my first and only for everything you mentioned.

 

[Frisky]

You do? I went out with the... thing!
I have a vendetta against her, can you tell?

Not really... You're doing a good job hiding it

Okay then. Yeah. She's my first and only for everything you mentioned.

Keep your head up dude I'll add you later, if you wanna talk.

Sorry for the double post

 

[Madertus]

^There's a magic 'Edit' button next to 'Quote' in your posts ;p

 

[Frisky]

^There's a magic 'Edit' button next to 'Quote' in your posts ;p

I know, I completely forgot, herp derp.

 

[Brend]

Happened when I was 14. Stereotypical Caravan Park story.

 

[Madertus]

...aaaaand she doesn't want to see me. She saw the message yesterday at 16:12.

Now that's gonna get ugly to me.

 

[MoLiEG]

...aaaaand she doesn't want to see me.

Apparently I'm not the only one who suffers this

 

[adam46]

Well, she might be adding me back soon, if she is true to her word. <3

 

[Madertus]

Apparently I'm not the only one who suffers this

My point is... I was hoping she was gonna respond at least She saw and read that message, unless Facebook screwed up and it only shows up she did. I repel people, I guess. Will be a bit of time until I get over it.

EDIT:
1000th post!

 

[McLaren]

Well, she might be adding me back soon, if she is true to her word. <3

Good to read. 👍

 

[MSTER232]

Ahhhhh I can't take this no more 🤬 🤬 !!!!!!! I've been trying to find love for a full 7 years only for poor fortune to invade my life... What am I doing wrong? Am I that ugly ??


Sorry for rant guys, feeling really sad and not my usual happy self... when will these mood swings go away?!

 

[Danny]

 

[Flamedogg]

Ahhhhh I can't take this no more 🤬 🤬 !!!!!!! I've been trying to find love for a full 7 years only for poor fortune to invade my life... What am I doing wrong? Am I that ugly ??


Sorry for rant guys, feeling really sad and not my usual happy self... when will these mood swings go away?!

Looks isn't always the thing to be strictly focusing on. What really makes you is your personality and the way you show or present it to that person you feel towards to. As for 7 years I have you beat there, How do you think that makes me feel...

Anyways I think we all are getting off topic here.

 

[MSTER232]

Looks isn't always the thing to be strictly focusing on. What really makes you is your personality and the way you show or present it to that person you feel towards to. As for 7 years I have you beat there, How do you think that makes me feel...

Anyways I think we all are getting off topic here.

True... let's keep it back on topic 👍 .