Your 1st Kiss...

[ITCC_Andrew]

Damn dude, you're no idea how unbelievably does that sound

Congrats! I never thought I'd smile this much just by reading someone's 'luck' story.

Nor did I, in fairness, know how awesome my advice was.


But, yeah, congrats frisky.


I won't brag or anything, I'll just be proud.

Now, to find my own next girlfriend!! I work an odd schedule @ work, so, it's actually hard to meet new girls, but, at my age (19) there's plenty of choice!

 

[Frisky]

Thanks guys, Yeah, jealousy can help quite a bit in that situation

@Madertus, I'm still smiling! I can't stop, it's the best Christmas present ever!

Merry Christmas everyone!

 

[CinnamonOD]

Nor did I, in fairness, know how awesome my advice was.


But, yeah, congrats frisky.


I won't brag or anything, I'll just be proud.

Now, to find my own next girlfriend!! I work an odd schedule @ work, so, it's actually hard to meet new girls, but, at my age (19) there's plenty of choice!

You will find it, with that advice you gave him. I thought you had a girlfriend already, but hey, just follow your own advice.



Congrats Frisky!

 

[Kitten]

My first kiss was like in the summer , lasted about long time "Make out" Psh

 

[Danny]

Nor did I, in fairness, know how awesome my advice was.

A broken clock is still right twice a day.

 

[ITCC_Andrew]

You will find it, with that advice you gave him. I thought you had a girlfriend already, but hey, just follow your own advice.



Congrats Frisky!

This. ^


I had a girlfriend already, but, she was weird, so we broke up. But, I did enjoy the time with her.

But, I bumped into an old classmate of mine from Bosnia. European enough for my standards.

A broken clock is still right twice a day.

 

[MSTER232]

A broken clock is still right twice a day.

Took me quite a think but I eventually found out what you mean. Nice one!

 

[ITCC_Andrew]

Took me quite a think but I eventually found out what you mean. Nice one!

Even though I should be slightly offended, since he called me a broken clock, it's still quite funny.

 

[Madertus]

Do you guys think it's still possible to bring back a relationship (we weren't a couple, we were in the same class but my and her friends were telling us we should get together) if one haven't seen another for 6-7 (yes, six or seven) years?

I mean... it didn't work because my parents decided to move to Warsaw (40-ish km from where I used to live).

Hell, it's been a bloody long time. I know it's stupid but it's still hard for me to get over it, especially now that I saw recent pictures of her. Heavens above, she is the most beautiful being I've ever seen.

There's no thing in my life that I regret more than this; I wasted an opportunity for a normal life. And it's all my fault, had I only decided to make that one simple move...

So what do you guys think - should I try to contact her anytime soon or leave it where it is (except it's not anywhere)?

 

[ITCC_Andrew]

Do you guys think it's still possible to bring back a relationship (we weren't a couple, we were in the same class but my and her friends were telling us we should get together) if one haven't seen another for 6-7 (yes, six or seven) years?

I mean... it didn't work because my parents decided to move to Warsaw...

Hell, it's been a bloody long time. I know it's stupid but it's still hard for me to get over it, especially now that I saw recent pictures of her. Heavens above, she is the most beautiful being I've ever seen.

There's no thing in my life that I regret more than this; I wasted an opportunity for a normal life. And it's all my fault, had I only decided to make that one simple move...

So what do you guys think - should I try to contact her anytime soon or leave it where it is (except it's not anywhere)?

If she hasn't moved on... I knew an Austrian girl back in Grade 3 (?) which was 10 years ago, and she's still pretty, but, definitely dating someone else. So, go for it, if she's still interested! 👍 Good luck!

 

[MSTER232]

Do you guys think it's still possible to bring back a relationship (we weren't a couple, we were in the same class but my and her friends were telling us we should get together) if one haven't seen another for 6-7 (yes, six or seven) years?

I mean... it didn't work because my parents decided to move to Warsaw (40-ish km from where I used to live).

Hell, it's been a bloody long time. I know it's stupid but it's still hard for me to get over it, especially now that I saw recent pictures of her. Heavens above, she is the most beautiful being I've ever seen.

There's no thing in my life that I regret more than this; I wasted an opportunity for a normal life. And it's all my fault, had I only decided to make that one simple move...

So what do you guys think - should I try to contact her anytime soon or leave it where it is (except it's not anywhere)?

Contact her, because what have you got to lose? You might find that she really misses you and she wants to get together with you too. But if you just leave it, then you always have that regret deep inside you that you didn't even try to get back together again.

 

[Madertus]

@ Sir MrMelancholy15 the Great - That's another matter, I'm sure somebody with her looks has someone.

@MSTER32 - makes sense.

Plus, I'm bloody afraid of rejection.

It's in a big part because of the final year of primary school. A girl I had a minor crush on decided it'd be funny to pull a prank on my feelings; she pretended to be interested in me in front of her friends.

Secondary and high schools were no better. For two final years of secondary (I moved to Warsaw after the first one) people were picking on me and threatening me for no apparent reason. Even after they were told I attempted a suicide, my stalkers wouldn't let it go. They did after I suddenly attacked and broke (let's call him Alan)'s arm.

I couldn't trust anyone ever since; in high school something called "Hedgehog's dilemma" strongly developed in my head. The more you try to get close to people, the more you're being hurt - that's what it is about. I still suffer from it. Had I not been afraid of simply asking her out, I'd be a happy guy for quite a time now.

 

[Alex.]

I was 17. I was tickling her and she just launched it on me. It was awesome.

 

[Slash]

I think I first made out with a girl when I was like 12 lol

 

[MSTER232]

I was 17. I was tickling her and she just launched it on me. It was awesome.

Well it sounds that you had a great time with her 👍 .

@MSTER32 - makes sense.

Plus, I'm bloody afraid of rejection.

Even if she does reject you then at least you can say you tried to get her back then having her float through your mind 24/7 on whether she'd say yes or not.

 

[Cano]

Contact her, because what have you got to lose? You might find that she really misses you and she wants to get together with you too. But if you just leave it, then you always have that regret deep inside you that you didn't even try to get back together again.

This absolutely. If I ever were to divorce, I know exactly who I'd look for, and she's married with a kid now. I still wouldn't hesitate, because we were the best friends in the world. Stuff happened that forced us to "break", and even though I had a huge crush on her back in the day, I'd still look for her. It doesn't matter. If you enjoy being with her as friends, why the hecking heck no?

@ MrMelancholy15 the Great - That's another matter, I'm sure somebody with her looks has someone.

@MSTER32

in high school something called "Hedgehog's dilemma" strongly developed in my head.

Theme music for your head:

 

[McLaren]

Do you guys think it's still possible to bring back a relationship (we weren't a couple, we were in the same class but my and her friends were telling us we should get together) if one haven't seen another for 6-7 (yes, six or seven) years?

I mean... it didn't work because my parents decided to move to Warsaw (40-ish km from where I used to live).

Hell, it's been a bloody long time. I know it's stupid but it's still hard for me to get over it, especially now that I saw recent pictures of her. Heavens above, she is the most beautiful being I've ever seen.

There's no thing in my life that I regret more than this; I wasted an opportunity for a normal life. And it's all my fault, had I only decided to make that one simple move...

So what do you guys think - should I try to contact her anytime soon or leave it where it is (except it's not anywhere)?

It's extremely plausible. One of my closest friends met his current wife 8 years ago after her last marriage ended. Turns out she was the girl he had sat behind in high school 17 years prior to her seeking him out. It's not a common situation to happen, but it does happen.

But, of course, you'll never know until you make the initial contact. If she does agree to meet with you, take it somewhat slow for both your & her sake. She may not be the same girl you liked as 7 years is a long time for people to change. Thus, take into account she may not be the same person you knew back then. She may have a child, family, or whatever else. If you find out or know enough about her current life to know any of that information, then it'll be easier for you to begin making it known you'd like to get to know her again & pursue a relationship.

 

[photonrider]

Lt. Uhuru!!!

Get over here. I need to kiss you and afix in time the first kiss in Space.

 

[ITCC_Andrew]

@ MrMelancholy15 the Great - That's another matter, I'm sure somebody with her looks has someone.

European girls.

Also, Sir Melancholy15 the Great? 💡

Secondary and high schools were no better. For two final years of secondary (I moved to Warsaw after the first one) people were picking on me and threatening me for no apparent reason. Even after they were told I attempted a suicide, my stalkers wouldn't let it go. They did after I suddenly attacked and broke (let's call him Alan)'s arm.

Some people. Part of the reason behind my melancholy is bullying. They're idiots, really. Since primary school, I've been better off, but, I too had a few thoughts of suicide at the hands of others (a.k.a. bullycide.)

Even now, I'm still scarred from the bullying, emotionally. It's the reason why I don't take well to criticism that's put in an offensive wording. I go with the flow, until someone insults me. The resulting temper can be quite loud, irrational, and violent. It's the Irish in me.

 

[Madertus]

^Huh, in my case it's a bit different now. Sure, I'm very afraid to trust people. But when I do, I'm still trying to be very careful.

And if someone tries to be an ass to me or to someone I like, I don't see any obstacles in telling them go @#$?!!! themselves. And most of all, I don't care one bit what people think about me. I am myself, and it's not to change easily any time soon. The only thing I can do about that is simply proving them wrong.

You know, there's a dude in my faculty group who thinks people not from Warsaw are douchebags (he's from Serock, a small town near Warsaw ._.). When he found out one of my friends is from Grojec (another small town near Warsaw), he called her a peasant. I literally stood up and I was like three seconds from slamming his face on my knee. Also, another friend of mne dyed a small part of her hair green, it was barely noticeable because of her natural bright brown color. There he goes - 'it turns the attention away from her ugly mug'. He is the first person ever I threatened. By now, I can surely tell he is generally a nice guy actually.

Also guys, thank you all for your words, I'll contact that gal I was talking about. And believe me, I'll post the result here, soner or later. to all of you!

Also, Mel, post edited

 

[MSTER232]

Did anyone get a kiss as a Christmas present ?

 

[Flamedogg]

Nope, and never did so far.

 

[XS]

Did anyone get a kiss as a Christmas present ?

not this year. I did a few years back, when I was drunk, by a girl I didn't know. Awkward night...

 

[ITCC_Andrew]

Did anyone get a kiss as a Christmas present ?

Yes. My grandma's cat has a very rough tongue, too.


Nah, I think I'll stay single. As well as modding my Impreza in 2014, and saving money for maintenance/emergencies, I might also buy a racing kart. So, then, I'll probably need some money, that I'd otherwise have to spend on jewelry and things. Not my style, but, I'm not a jerk, so, I might just stay single.


P.S., Sir Madertus the Magnificent, I officially adore this thread's off-topic naming schemes. It's sorta on-topic, but, meh. Anyways, yeah, sounds good Madertus. Standing up is the right thing to do, just don't get hurt/stabbed. Interrupting a mugging can have interesting consequences. But, the kid didn't even notice us, so, at least the kid won't remember anything. (No, I wasn't stabbed, but, my best friend was being mugged, I talked the guy (who was rather atmospheric, on drugs) down a bit, while he ran away screaming.

 

[GTracer38]

Nope. Never.

 

[Madertus]

(...) Standing up is the right thing to do, just don't get hurt/stabbed. Interrupting a mugging can have interesting consequences. But, the kid didn't even notice us, so, at least the kid won't remember anything. (No, I wasn't stabbed, but, my best friend was being mugged, I talked the guy (who was rather atmospheric, on drugs) down a bit, while he ran away screaming.

You know, it happened when they were calling me (insert the worst Polish swearing here). I was just sitting on a bench, and then something just cracked in my head, like a single bell ring. Gave (Alan) a headbutt below his sternum and slammed my foot into his thight. When he was laying down, I wrapped his hand around my leg.

Nobody in secondary ever "dared" to bully me.

 

[Bigbazz]

Strange thread, I was around 8-9 years when my best friend and girlfriend at the time suggested we try out "kissing like in the movies".

After her I had to wait until I was 16 and on holidays with family and friends, the girl was a friend of mine and came on holidays with me. She was the first girl I fell for, and she made the move.. I was too dumb and stupid to know what to do at that point so I'm glad she did.

Why I was more confident and capable around girls when I was 8-11 years old than I was at 16 I have no idea.

 

[ITCC_Andrew]

You knew, at age 8, that you had nothing to lose, and your logical side didn't become irrational with thoughts of social retribution.

 

[adam46]

Well we were both eight and I was staying round her house. It was a regular thing, we used to sit in sleeping bags in the sitting room. We were just friends at the time and we were playing Playstation (GT4 if I remember rightly) and after a race she looked at me and smiled, I smiled back and... Well one thing led to another and we kissed, ten seconds and a giggle from her later and it had happened. A couple of months later I had turned nine and on the way to a Swimming Competition (We both used to be keen swimmers, and she is now at a 'swimming school' of sorts, well known for breeding Olympians.) she asked me out. Not quite the usual way round but still.

We had such a lovely relationship, I basically lived in her house to the extent where most of my possesions were in her room rather than my own back home. We started out just as her mother gave birth to a little boy, Joe, he was like a younger brother to me. Things had a reached a peak this summer. We were hugely in love (I think), I'd proposed (Young foolishness yes, but at the time it seemed so right) and let's say, we went far beyond kissing.

Then she recieved a scholarship to the aforementioned school. She wasn't keen on leaving and crossing a sea to go there, and we'd only see eachother at 4-6 week intervals but I convinced her it was for the best if she pursued it. It was her dream after all. So things became long distance, but she called a hault to it all last month.

That first kiss led to years of memories and moments, and it hurts knowing it's over but it's nice knowing her future horizons look bright while I sit here depressed. Sorry about this comment, just not a happy bunny as of late, as you can tell. I'd post a picture but, not sure if that's allowed.

 

[W3H5]

*snip*

Ouch. I feel for you, man, I really do. That's heartbreaking just to read.