🤬!!! Seriously, you're scaring me. Someone also told me that. Though I have a lot creepy, hard to explain experiences like someone knocking at my bedroom door with no other people at the house because i already locked the doors. And the giant shadow figure that was haunting me last '12 etc. etc.... Hey! Its just a light ok?! They are not connected! I'm just an "unlucky guy". *gotta buy some vaseline now* (Also the creepy stories are true but its for another topic.)
I truly regret it if I am indeed frightening you. So I apologize for that. However, some knowledge and experience often serves to dispel the fright and disorientation that unusual and weird experiences can inspire. So, in brief, here goes.
Firstly, you are experiencing a slice of what at least 10% of the human population also experiences, so you are not alone and it is a fairly common pattern of experience. As you age, all these sorts of experience will diminish - unless you cultivate them, which is not recommended.
The bottom line is that, when we are young, we are more open and susceptible to what are referred to as mystical, archetypal, psychic, paranormal, extrasensory, occult or religious phenomena. For better or worse, you have certain "gifts" in this area. All of these experiences amount to sort of an invisible elephant in the room, as conventional medicine and science has a hard time dealing with them, although there are are piecemeal attempts at scientific research. It boils down to "consciousness", a term for which there is no consensus science or medical definition. It is a bit of a mystery, but it seems to be both integral and important to the human experience.
A major but generally under-reported fact is that a huge percentage of UFO sightings have accompanying psychic or paranormal overtones or aftereffects. The UFO phenomenon, and by extension the alien and God questions, are absolutely bound together by the knot of consciousness.
So, in conclusion, I would say you are not an unlucky guy, but rather a special and lucky guy. I recommend calmly accepting this, and not worrying in the slightest. Be observant, take notes, or keep a journal. You are obviously articulate and make a great sketch. I would venture to say you have a great future. Please deposit 25 cents in the slot.