This is somewhat of a tangent (but is it really?): I hear people whining (rappers and athletes mostly) about how cops single them out because they're a black man driving a white man's luxury sedan. Well guess what, folks: If you look and act like a gangbanger, it's not too much of a reach to assume that you obtained that S600 through illegal means. Likewise, if I saw an unshaven, tattered clothed white man (*cough* bum *cough*) driving a 750Li, I would be similarly suspicious. If you don't want people to assume that you stole that nice car, DON'T LOOK LIKE YOU STOLE THAT NICE CAR.Carl.When people see a young white guy in a BMW, that's because he has rich parents. When they see a young black guy in the same car, that's because he's a drug dealer.
PakoSo I ask you again, what 'DO' you fear? If it's not black people you fear than what is it?
PakoYou think that affirmative action will give all the good jobs to less qualified people while leaving better qualified people on the street?
PakoYou think it isn't fair for the employer to hire this person over that person?
PakoWhat was the purpose of Affirmative Action?
PakoDoes it accomplish what it was set out to do?
PakoAre the side effects you experience a lessor evil of not having Affirmative Action?
PakoI'm pretty sure you would have a different opinion if you lived as a working class black man in the 1950's.
PakoThese are opinions and ideas that you choose to feel. Don't put the blame on anyone or anything except yourself for that.
EventSee this is exactly why I don't like Affirmative Action. It's designed to prevent racism, but it actually promotes it! It makes people begin to not like minorities because the same or less qualified minority will get the job instead of you because you're white. This will start racism all over again, as it has started to creep into danoff. We need to stop it quickly. People say it will go back to the way it was in the 50s, but it won't. That generation is old, grey, and dead. The new generations have grown up with affirmative action. Once we remove it, then people will start to treat whites and blacks equal, not go back to making them sit in the back of the bus. However, if we wait too long, then white people would have made us inferior, not because of other races, but because of ourselves! It's like a teeter-totter of doom, we need to get off fast and balance things out before we fall into the abyss.
It's also naive to think that forcing these bigots to hire [insert minority here] just makes the problem magically disappear, and everyone becomes happy.PakoAffirmative action guarantees that there is not discrimination against the minority within a specific demographic. It's naive to think that we no longer have racists and bigots in America.
People don't understand that though. The theory of affirmative action is a great one, much like communism. But we can't have perfect racism like we can't have perfect communism. People and employers are scared of affirmative action! They think to themselves "Gosh, that white guy is really qualified, I think we should hire him. But wait, I don't want people or the goverment to think that I didn't hire that less qualified black guy because he's black... I'm gonna hire the black guy."PakoAffirmative action guarantees that there is not discrimination against the minority within a specific demographic.
PakoAnd this is the fear that turns into anger. It happens so fast that some people (danoff I suspect) that they don't see the fear part and only feel the anger.
PakoThe racism that danoff is expressing is of no fault but his own.
PakoHe won't admit it, but it is a choice that he has made to allow his second hand experience to form an opinion in his mind that he can't trust any black person in a job because he now doubts EVERY black persons ability to be hired on merit because of Affirmative action.
PakoIt's naive to think that we no longer have racists and bigots in America.
EventThe theory of affirmative action is a great one, much like communism.
In your opinion. Pure equality is difficult to grasp, because no society in human history has gotten even close to perfect equality. It would be a utopia. Too bad it's impossible.danoffBoth theories are piss-poor.
EventIn your opinion. Pure equality is difficult to grasp, because no society in human history has gotten even close to perfect equality. It would be a utopia. Too bad it's impossible.
magburnerHey, I'm a black guy, and Whilst I think what you've said makes me think that you maybe a rascist, you also said a lot that makes me think you are not. Prejudices of any kind are borne of ignorance, you are not ignorant of your mindset, and it takes a lot of courage to discuss your thoughts and feelings here. If you were an out-and-out racist, you wouldn't have the thoughts you have. Respect man. 👍
live4speedwhat you need to do is ask youself that if it was people of your own race getting the same advantages as you see happening now, would you feel the same way.
Dept. of LaborAffirmative action is not preferential treatment. It does not mean that unqualified persons should be hired or promoted over other people
danoffI was watching a U2 concert yesterday trying to ignore Bono as he went on his soap box about world hunger and how it's my duty to give my earnings to someone else because they're hungry blah blah. At one point he was singing and he grabbed someone out of the audience to come dance with him on stage. She was black. And my first thought was "Did he pick her because she's black?"
I was attending graduation at a major university that I know practices racial discrimination in admissions. I watched the black students crossing the stage and wondered how many of them displaced higher qualified white people to get where they are. I knew at least some of them did, and I had a strong reaction. I was very angry at the black students who did nothing to me personally because I couldn't help but think that better qualified applicants were displaced.
The speaker at the graduation ceremony was black. I happen to know who she is and I'm a big supporter of her career, but I couldn't help but wonder if she was chosen to speak because of her skin color.
It's in the back of my mind constantly now. Skin color is something that I pay attention to, especially black skin, which has a negative connotation in my mind - it makes me question whether they've earned whatever position they have. I didn't use to be this way. About 10 years ago I went to an almost completely white school in an almost completely white (but poorish) community. There was one black kid, and he was a good guy. I got along with him well and never really thought about how he was the only black kid. I never noticed his skin color. I had a few black friends in college and never thought anything about it because I knew them personally and knew they were qualified.
I work with a few black people, and I don't notice their skin color anymore either - because I know them personally. I know they're qualified and I'm pretty sure they weren't picked because of their skin color. But I have to admit that with at least one of them I wondered when I first met them if it was a factor in their hiring.
I also have a few personal examples of meeting unqualified black people who I'm certain were the beneficiaries of racial discrimination. I'll won't go into those at this point.
I think the end result is that I feel like black people need to prove themselves to me, whereas white people I assume are qualified. Isn't that the way it was 50 years ago?
How did I end up this way? Affirmative action. When I know that black people sometimes get picked for their skin color and not their qualifications it undermines ALL of their credibility in my mind - because I don't know which ones are the result of discrimination. Affirmative action is undermining the goal of racial equality at an alarming rate - even within my own mind. It's a handicap for all black people, not just the ones who have been the beneficiaries of racial discrimination - because we don't know which ones they are. All we know is their skin color.
So what do you think? Am I becoming a racist? I not as sure as I used to be about the answer to that question.
kylehnat*snip*
Edit: And I don't think danoff is racist for feeling this way. "Racist" implies that one discriminates against an entire race, which danoff clearly does not. He has animosity towards certain individuals in his workplace, but it's no different than resenting "Steve" for getting a job just because his dad is the boss. See?
danoffWhen I know that black people sometimes get picked for their skin color and not their qualifications it undermines ALL of their credibility in my mind - because I don't know which ones are the result of discrimination.
No, it wouldn't be a utopia, it would be a living hell. But that's for a different thread.EventIn your opinion. Pure equality is difficult to grasp, because no society in human history has gotten even close to perfect equality. It would be a utopia. Too bad it's impossible.
SwiftDanoff, if you base your judgement of an entire race on one government policy, then YEP!!! You are a racist. End of discussion.
BrianAffirmative Action is not "reverse discrimination", "racism" etc. It's compensation for past and continuing injustices. Again, affirmative action is not there for minorities because of who we are. It's because minorities have been exploited (to put it mildly). People are awarded compensatory damages all the time... affirmative action is just another example. A "class-action lawsuit", if you will, in which we won.
BrianIn conclusion, the belief that qualified white people are denied jobs and access to education in favor of less-qualified minorities is a myth.
danoffYup. That's the conclusion I've come to as well. I am racist. And justifiably so.
danoffMy wife was publicly verbally attacked because of her skin (white) and hair color (blonde). She was in tears.
SwiftHow is it justified to hold a negative judgement over an entire race because of a GOVERNMENT policy?
SwiftThis is very bad. What happened?