I have seen some of what you are talking about. This is why so many religions are looked at horribly. There are people who say that they believe, and that they follow the beliefs, but they completely do the opposite.
It's easy to say that this is the extent of it, but there are so many people who are tired of the lies and hypocrisy. It's not hard (try most of the people on this forum to begin with) to find people who are not interested in ANY religion simply because of them.
The interesting part here is that I have 6 generations in my family in my church on one side of my family line, and 7 on the other. However, I was born and raised in WNC (and I Love Western NC
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). My parents ended up here due to a job.
In my life, I have visited family in Utah and watched people in the (actually very deep) south.
There are many who lie.
But....
At the same time, I have seen several people who don't.
When they don't, it's really quite amazing to see their lives and how they live. And they don't fake it. Seriously. On top of that, they can people who have religion in their lives or don't.
And I mean that for people in Utah, NC, and all over the US. There are people who actually do live their lives well. And I have seen that with people who don't believe in God, and people who do.
Now, as for alcohol, tobacco, and caffeine. These are all things that become habits and needs. In worst cases addictions. There are many other things that can also be the same way.
The entire point of not getting into any of these is that it removes choice. I like the (fairly recent) cigarette commercial. There is a little monster that drags the person out from what they are doing to get a "hit". On that note, how many people can't wake up without coffee or some other caffeine? How many would try?
That is a removal of choice. That is why it is not good to get into any of those things.
Now, as for blacks, etc. There are many theories about why that happened. Some make sense, none really do. The end point is that it was chosen to go down that path, and now it isn't.
The "Curse of Cain" only carries as far as those who wish to consider it. Every society rises and falls, and those that rise have a new set of workings. At least as far as I am concerned. How that falls person by person is between them and God. And I don't really care to consider who is better or worse because of their parents. It's like the old story of the town drunk who has two sons. One became a drunk, the other a millionaire. When asked why, both of the answered, "Because of my father".
I don't feel that there is any more to prejudice than refusing to allow personal choice and freedom.
It's not easy to understand why and how previous people chose what they did. I will not justify or condemn people that I don't know or understand completely.
I feel for you. It is hard to live with problems. Yes, I understand that there is a question for why God allows problems. I can't answer the exact reason each person has a problem (or multiple). Or even why some have worse problems than others.
Is it a problem that God allows, or even causes, problems? Why did God try Job? Why did God ask Abraham to kill his son? Why does abuse happen at any point in time?
God set this world in motion, and all of possibilities and probabilities. So, I have gotten to the point where I accept that it is all part of the process. No, it's not fun. But it is simply a fact of life that we always have the chance of running into or having problems. And, yes, God allows this to happen. On top of that, He put everything into place so that it COULD happen.
I do know and accept that this is normal. We all have the chance to accept or reject the creator of all things.
It is easy to scream that there is no reason for problems. And no one WANTS problems. But there is no way to get away from them. Even having a basic conversation can create miscommunication, and lead to problems. But we all have to learn and deal with them.
@Famine - I don't speak for you. But it appears that you have trust and hope that infinity is a real thing. I don't have any reason to say you are right or wrong. I accept that you are more right than wrong.
But here is the part that clicks with me: Trust and hope are the foundation, and even can be said to be the definition, of faith. So how is faith in infinity different from faith in God?
That is why I said what I said.