The CSL with load cell is very very stiff at first but the more I play and both break in and dial in the way I brake, I'm getting faster and faster. I don't have too many issues. If I were to do it again I would likely buy the V2 because value wise it makes sense. They seem to be the sweet spot and now that you can sort of build your own, why not get the better pedals for similar money...
Of the wheel options, when I do upgrade I will get the clubsport round 320 mm in leather. I prefer a round wheel and that particular one, to me, looks to be the nicest in their mid tier. No idea about button mapping for it, though. It does have the funky switch which is good to toggle through the menu for TCS/brake balance/etc but that may not be great for VR
I don't love the DDPro wheel at all. Buttons are cheap feeling and it's just too cramped together. My fingers hang up on things occasionally when I'm pushing hard. It's serviceable for sure and miles better than the controller for realism but they could have done so much better than this for the money spent.