and hardly anyone is talking about driving the cars. They are talking about skin deep problems that for the most part don't effect the driving experience, apart from mechanical damge

. oh i cant change rims , i cant paint my car what ever colour i want blahblah. I would be more upset if people where saying the cars handle like they do in forza, or that the tracks didn't have the actual road bumps, Road cambers and other imperfections like so many other racing games don't have. But for the 77$ i spent i think i will get my moneys worth and then some
Agree, I could not care less about paint and rims, or standard/premium cars, I mostly use bumper view.
But then here is something that should upset you, even if you (we) only care about the actual driving.
If you want to teach your son how to race, then turn off ABS. Well except... don't, unless you want to invoke the new soap-on-ice mode which makes all cars skid and slip at the tiniest tap on the brake. Yes, even on sports tyres at low speeds. This actually reminds me of NFS, there you go
Even with ABS, there is something really wrong with the brake balance or braking model, try fx. the Lotus challenge on TGTT (covered in other threads). You don't want to tell your son that Lotus'es really drive like that.
Using clutch? You'd better not teach him that cars go into N gear if you are too fast with it. Clutch is totally unrealistic, and for me, useless. It is the same complaint as with GT5p, why did they not fix it?
You are not using a G27 in your rig? Otherwise you would have experienced that most of it's buttons are DEAD and unconfigurable in this game, hence all functions like left/right view are unavailabe. Why?
And then the AI... major complaint before, I would say it has changed, but only to become bad in different ways, and still way behind the competition.
And the new magnetic bumpers. Just do not rub bumbers or they'll stick. Like train wagons.
All in all, driving works and can indeed be lots of fun and entertainment, but for me, at least one of the above are an annoyance in most races. This game did not receive the amount of love and attention that it's older brothers got. Yes that is disappointing.