Cute analogy, meanwhile tens of thousands of ordinary men - and now women because they’re starting to run out of men - are being forced to fight and die in this conflict. On both sides. It needs to end. It’s insane how i seem to be the only one trying to see things from their perspective.
It all ends if Russia calls off the invasion and goes home. That's how you stop people being forced to fight and die.
You seem to be suggesting that Russia should be allowed to keep some or all of the land that they've attempted to annex. I think that's a non-starter, but let's go with it for the sake of argument and work through some of the problems with that.
How much do they get to keep? Which particular parts and why those?
What happens to the Ukrainians who lived there? Where do they go? What about the value of their assets and possessions? What about the value of the land and infrastructure to the government and Ukrainian people?
Given that the world as a whole probably doesn't want to incentivise Russia or any other country from engaging in expansionism in this way in the future, how do you make sure that this isn't setting a precedent encouraging such behaviour?
What happens with regards to reparations or damages? Presumably you're not calling for the entirety of Ukraine to be handed over to Russia and a lot of infrastructure has been damaged, people killed, and economic damage incurred by Russia's "special military operation".
How do you generate sufficient trust in any agreement that Russia might sign, given the nature of how the war started in the first place? How do you stop Russia from agreeing with some treaty, and then simply attacking again next year?
While just letting Russia have the territory might save lives short term, I think it's unclear that it would be positive in the long term. This is the basis of pretty much every war where the participants aren't backed into a corner and fighting for their lives. It will always result in less casualties in the short term just to retreat or concede, and that's often what aggressors like Russia rely on. However, it's entirely possible to end up with greater losses and in a worse position from conceding than if you had just fought it out from an initial position of strength.
Ukraine is doing okay considering who they're up against and they have support from a lot of the international community. If they concede now, they'll almost certainly be in a worse position the next time Russia attacks them. And conceding now does nothing to address that concern of future aggression, Russia's determination in this war means that they're unlikely to give the idea up any time soon.