The General Relationship Thread

[Adamgp]

Not sure why I try to interact with other people...

I met a girl a couple weeks ago, seemed real nice. She gave me her number, without me even asking for it. I called her after a day or two, and she said she started seeing another guy and it was getting serious. Naturally I was like "WTF?"

Then she called me back a few days later and said it didn't work out with the other guy, and wanted to see if I was still interested, I said yes. So we started going out. She did tell me a little bit about her relationship history and that she was married and now divorced.

She called me up today to tell me that she is having issues with her ex husband and doesn't want to start a new relationship right now.

Women: can't live with them, pass the beer nuts.

 

[ExigeEvan]

Depending on these "issues" she sounds like she might be worth keeping an interest in. She approached you, twice, and has been pretty up front about everything.

 

[Adamgp]

She didn't go into detail about the issues, but she did tell me that she is most likely going to be changing her cell phone number.

I told her that since she has my number that she can call me once she gets things resolved. If I haven't found someone else by then we can try it again.

 

[MoLiEG]

Well... after a more careful examination, I decided not to pursue the girl I asked out the other day...

She seems to be a complete b:censored: ... and I don't need one of those in my life

Fortunately, I have another girl in sight now... let's see what happens 👍

 

[Azuremen]

I need more lady friends and friends in general. I kind of noticed that getting into a relationship is useless since im going to be moving in 2015 to a place far far away from St. Louis land. I just want some people I can come back from college to.

That is a year off... I think you're putting too much thought into what is expected from a relationship.

 

[phillgt2002]

That is a year off... I think you're putting too much thought into what is expected from a relationship.

I understand, but most of these relationships just turn into just going out with eachother, so I'm kind of just anticipating that. I'd rather look for something longer in a place I'll be in for a while.

 

[cnd01]

Gf and I 9 months!

 

[ExigeEvan]

I understand, but most of these relationships just turn into just going out with eachother, so I'm kind of just anticipating that. I'd rather look for something longer in a place I'll be in for a while.

So why not spend the year trying to get beyond that?

 

[phillgt2002]

So why not spend the year trying to get beyond that?

I really don't think I'll have the ability to carry out a relationship right now, and that's mainly due to privacy in my families house. I'm really JUST honestly waiting to get more privacy because my father is a nosy intrusive person and goes as far as going through my year books to find out what girl I was dating.

 

[MrUnknown]

I really don't think I'll have the ability to carry out a relationship right now, and that's mainly due to privacy in my families house. I'm really JUST honestly waiting to get more privacy because my father is a nosy intrusive person and goes as far as going through my year books to find out what girl I was dating.

I know that feeling, bro...

EDIT: I know that this post came from nowhere... So... My name is Edgar.

 

[nk4e]

Hi Edgar.

 

[Callum B]

Since I've been here I've had a relationship, broke up with the lass, and have now decided that settling down can go take a nice hot mug of "How about no".
I'm Mr.Friendzone and I know I should have never tried to change that.
But on a more serious note I'm much much more confident now and I can be myself around basically everyone in my college now which is helping apparently because people of the female variety seem to want to talk to me a lot more now.
Also it seems the girls I talk to now are more 'forgiving', for example I went up to a lass who's friends of a mate (both I only just met in college this year) and my mate dared me to go up to her and *cough* 'give her a compliment'. Simply put I went up to her, said along the lines of "[Name], you have a terrific rack.", walked off and the next day she got my number off my mate and we've started texting. Tell me how that works? Is this how all the plebs get girls attentions? I did it for a joke and it worked! Now obviously I'm not flying the "She wants the D!" flag but I don't normally make friends like that either.

 

[nk4e]

a fling?

 

[Slash]

She wants the D.




I wish I had that kind of luck. LOL, I kinda want to do that to someone now.

 

[Callum B]

a fling?

A fling sounds pretty good to me at present. Or did you mean that's what it seems like she wants?

She wants the D.




I wish I had that kind of luck. LOL, I kinda want to do that to someone now.

I suppose I'm usually that funny weird guy so maybe they expect it? I said to another girl in my tutor that she had a fine body and she said (jokingly) that she's putting a restraining order through... at least I hope it was a joke, or my computing lessons will be very difficult. But seriously, I would've never been able to say these things a year ago purely because I didn't let my 'quirky' personality out in public, but now I do and it's working.

 

[Slash]

I couldn't either to be honest. I'd start laughing or I'd chicken out lmao.

 

[Callum B]

I just don't really think of the consequence (if there's any to be had) about these sort of things. I suppose you could say my personality has been influenced by that ever so poetic phrase "**** it YOLO".
I shall remove myself from existence now.

 

[Slash]

I used to be that way

Sometimes I still get the random courage to do some stuff like that though lmao.

 

[Callum B]

When I know the consequence for doing something is anything other than deadly impending doom I'll pretty much do it.
Oh also an added note, being a bit large has it's advantages now, girls I know have an obsession with touching my moobs. My rule is I can do whatever you do to me, eye for an eye and all that, so far three girls have touched 'em knowing that rule was in place. Doing pretty well for myself.

 

[Slash]

When I know the consequence for doing something is anything other than deadly impending doom I'll pretty much do it.
Oh also an added note, being a bit large has it's advantages now, girls I know have an obsession with touching my moobs. My rule is I can do whatever you do to me, eye for an eye and all that, so far three girls have touched 'em knowing that rule was in place. Doing pretty well for myself.

I'm going to start doing that lol

 

[Callum B]

Also grow a beard! They love them! A girl I'd never spoken to before who's in my politics class, we were waiting outside waiting for the teacher, she turned round said "Awesome beard" and stroked it... I say again, we've never spoken before...

 

[Slash]

Also grow a beard! They love them! A girl I'd never spoken to before who's in my politics class, we were waiting outside waiting for the teacher, she turned round said "Awesome beard" and stroked it... I say again, we've never spoken before...

I'm slowly growing mine out but it hasn't quite filled in yet. It's getting there lmao.

 

[Callum B]

I don't know if American lasses differ from those over the pond here but if not you're on route to a goldmine.

 

[Slash]

I don't know if American lasses differ from those over the pond here but if not you're on route to a goldmine.

Some of them can be rather odd, I can tell you that. I will never understand them, everyone is different.

 

[Callum B]

Well I suppose I've spoken to about 5% of the female population of my school (probably less), frankly the other 95% I could survive without them existing.

 

[Slash]

Since I've graduated I only see a few and only one I'm somewhat interested in. The one I really want is still in school, but it's not happening. I mostly hang out with guy friends and rarely see women. I'd love to meet ladies at the local track but most are usually with someone or with a large group of girls and it's intimidating.

 

[Callum B]

See I usually have a group of friends or singular friend who talks to some girls and the groups we're in end up melding at one point.
Do you have like a crazy-ly confident friend that can just burst into a female group with you and rustle up conversation? Because that's the only reason I managed to start talking to gals and where I got my new found confidence.

 

[Slash]

Yeah sometimes we do lol. But usually it takes a lot of convincing from the rest of us haha.

 

[nk4e]

A fling sounds pretty good to me at present. Or did you mean that's what it seems like she wants?

If you make the right moves. Though it might be short term...

I suppose I'm usually that funny weird guy so maybe they expect it? I said to another girl in my tutor that she had a fine body and she said (jokingly) that she's putting a restraining order through... at least I hope it was a joke, or my computing lessons will be very difficult. But seriously, I would've never been able to say these things a year ago purely because I didn't let my 'quirky' personality out in public, but now I do and it's working.

COmputing lessons over the internet works. lol

 

[Callum B]

If you make the right moves. Though it might be short term...


COmputing lessons over the internet works. lol

I don't mind if it'd be short to be honest, I've tried having long relationships and they're not for me.

Well if they provide the Visual Basic program for me I'd happily do that, I wouldn't have a need to kill my teacher anymore.