The Homosexuality Discussion Thread

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I think homosexuality is:

  • a problem that needs to be cured.

    Votes: 88 6.0%
  • a sin against God/Nature.

    Votes: 145 9.8%
  • OK as long as they don't talk about it.

    Votes: 62 4.2%
  • OK for anybody.

    Votes: 416 28.2%
  • nobody's business but the people involved.

    Votes: 765 51.8%

  • Total voters
    1,476
If media reserved the race card for true and clear issues of racism, rather than pulling it out every chance they get, then maybe we will all calm down.

I hear what your saying, my own opinion (and it's really only that) is that America is still a very white-Christian nation, just from this forum alone I find that Americans (or at least users who identify themselves as such) don't realise how racist/homophobic/faith-driven their outlook on life is... and that standpoint seems to be considered "the norm".

I'm not including you in that although I know we spar across quite a wide political divide :D
 
I hear what your saying, my own opinion (and it's really only that) is that America is still a very white-Christian nation, just from this forum alone I find that Americans (or at least users who identify themselves as such) don't realise how racist/homophobic/faith-driven their outlook on life is... and that standpoint seems to be considered "the norm".

I'm not including you in that although I know we spar across quite a wide political divide :D

Not every American, mate. I'm a American who couldn't care about any of that crap. If you're gay, black and jewish, then good for you. Who cares. Does it affect my life? Nope. So, why would it bother me? Would I still hang out with them and consider them a friend? If they deserved that from me, only based on their personality, then yes.

Heck, I'm a supporter of the LGBT 'movement'. My own father is trans-gendered and I have no problems with that any more. The only reason I ever did was that it was my father. My boyhood legend. It was hard to accept it for that reason only. I also have friends that are black, Asian, and of Latin ancestry that are closer to me than my family. Then to boot, I'm a practicing Buddhist.

So, yeah. All Americans aren't bible thumpers from backwoods Alabama.
 
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Not every American, mate. I'm a American who couldn't care about any of that crap. If your a gay, black and jewish, then good for you. Who cares. Does it affect my life? Nope. So, why would it bother me? Would I still hang out with them and consider them a friend? If they deserved that from me, only based on their personality.

Heck, I'm a supporter of the LGBT 'movement'. My own father is trans-gendered and I have no problems with that any more. The only reason I ever did was that it was my father. My boyhood legend. It was hard to accept it for that reason only. I also have friends that are black, Asian, and of latin decent that are closer to me than my family. Then to boot, I'm a practicing Buddhist.

So, yeah. All Americans aren't bible thumpers from backwoods Alabama.

I should have made it clear that I knew I was uber-generalising, sorry dude :D
 
I hear what your saying, my own opinion (and it's really only that) is that America is still a very white-Christian nation, just from this forum alone I find that Americans (or at least users who identify themselves as such) don't realise how racist/homophobic/faith-driven their outlook on life is... and that standpoint seems to be considered "the norm".

I'm not including you in that although I know we spar across quite a wide political divide :D
We are a widespread nation. Things differ from one region to another. The blindness to our outlook goes beyond just the racist/homophobic/faith-driven (just to clarify, faith-driven means politically, not personality) and into everything. You see it in our nearly even political divides. Each side thinks their world view is normal. They don't realize their view might be unacceptable to some or that many others think differently until they go online or turn on the news.

But it goes both ways. Listen to some podcasts where southerners who moved to LA talk about their hometown life. They tell stories that leave the hosts kind of shocked. Similarly, tell a guy from Kentucky about openly public homosexuals living like "normal" couples or the likelihood of meeting transgendered people and they think they just heard about Soddam and Gammorah.

Is the news to blame? I think not. Fox and MSNBC wouldn't exist without their primary viewers watching just to have their own views reinforced. Also keep in mind, in a thread like this, the opposed will be quickest to speak up. It's like putting a poll online. Your results will be skewed based on the passion the topic creates in certain demographics. In a discussion forum you will get a large number of one-hit, "Just stating my opinion" posters who don't want to have their views questioned.
 
Another fine argument to allow business owners to exhibit their bigotry - I wouldn't want to buy jack squat from a racist or homophobe, and it's quite difficult for me to determine who they are when they're not allowed to enact racist and homophobic policies.
A Carl Peter Værnet type of person ( a "discriminatory" type person) is not an isolated incident. A large chunk (arguably a majority) of Germans at the time agreed with what they were doing. You could even go on to say that up through teh 1960s most people in the world agreeed with Carl's work and of course Britain used his method on gays up through that era post WW2. It took a great deal of debate in British politics to end the various experimentations and things, and eventually it was repealed but I don't buy into saying that the private sector should be allowed to do things that the government sector cant.

For example a parent could force a child who they think is gay (though say an android spy device the parent installs or computer activity monitoring) and bring them to me a doctor that can "cure the homosexilist disease", aka Rick Perry's definition of homosexual. :)
 
I hear what your saying, my own opinion (and it's really only that) is that America is still a very white-Christian nation, just from this forum alone I find that Americans (or at least users who identify themselves as such) don't realise how racist/homophobic/faith-driven their outlook on life is... and that standpoint seems to be considered "the norm".

Out on the West-coast, our viewpoint is generally more liberal than the UK's, as people don't bat an eye at homosexuals, atheism is common, and legalization of drugs is happening. We are a very, very diverse nation that is absolutely massive compared to the UK, and your stereotype is built mostly on the vocal members from the Bible Belt area. When I've been out to Georgia or Texas, people aren't entirely sure how to react to me and presentation; that is how different it is from coast to coast.

Likewise, I feel lumping the majority of UK citizens in with the "government control, obey authority, the state should provide a dozen safety nets, privacy isn't that big of a deal if you aren't doing something wrong" mindset. But then I'm also labeling an area about the size of the West Coast, which is a bit less extreme :P
 
Out on the West-coast, our viewpoint is generally more liberal than the UK's, as people don't bat an eye at homosexuals, atheism is common, and legalization of drugs is happening. We are a very, very diverse nation that is absolutely massive compared to the UK, and your stereotype is built mostly on the vocal members from the Bible Belt area. When I've been out to Georgia or Texas, people aren't entirely sure how to react to me and presentation; that is how different it is from coast to coast.

Likewise, I feel lumping the majority of UK citizens in with the "government control, obey authority, the state should provide a dozen safety nets, privacy isn't that big of a deal if you aren't doing something wrong" mindset. But then I'm also labeling an area about the size of the West Coast, which is a bit less extreme :P
Yeah the midwest is definitely nowhere near as liberal as the majority of the west coast and the northeast. The perception that America is still very close-minded and religiously oriented comes almost exclusively from the midwest and the south anymore. The cities seem to be improving, but there's still a massive rural population out here and the mindset is almost exclusively anti-liberal. Since the "family value" group also tends to be the loudest in making their opinions heard, in regards to media and political debate, they usually get the most attention outside the U.S., and since it's still a very prevalent opinion on LGBT topics and other more liberal issues it gets pushed ahead as the generalization of the States.

In other words, for all the progress being made in the U.S. I can assure rural populations are still very far away from becoming more accepting of liberal ideas such as equal rights.
 
It's catching on a little bit in a few places.
@TenEightyOne: "America is still"... I agree. I long ago realized that it's still my (American White Hetero-sexual Anglo-Saxon Protestant) ocean. It is hard to get beyond that, because fish don't know they are swimming. It is also incredible to see and hear how condescending we white-fish can be. As an example: In my church, and the regional association to which we belong, there was disagreement about 'welcoming and affirming'; church-speak for what is our position(!) concerning gays. That wasn't the only issue, but it was the one that made the papers. The region split, forming two regions. Bible-belt on Puget Sound... The most liberal churches made sure that everyone knew that they were good welcoming and affirming people. The conservative churches maintained a lower profile. In my church, we are welcoming but not affirming. Welcoming because it would be a poor church that was not, but not affirming because we felt it implied that we were granting permission when none was needed, and patting people on the head and saying 'yes we think you're a nice person just like the rest of us'. No one needs me to tell them they are OK.
 
A Carl Peter Værnet type of person ( a "discriminatory" type person) is not an isolated incident. A large chunk (arguably a majority) of Germans at the time agreed with what they were doing. You could even go on to say that up through teh 1960s most people in the world agreeed with Carl's work and of course Britain used his method on gays up through that era post WW2. It took a great deal of debate in British politics to end the various experimentations and things, and eventually it was repealed but I don't buy into saying that the private sector should be allowed to do things that the government sector cant.
I just want to check that you're using state-sponsored human experimentation based on discrimination as an argument that the private sector can't be discriminatory?

Only it seem that you're making, yet again, a fine argument for requiring equal treatment of citizens by the government - and also that the state should not be controlling the medical sector. But I don't really see how the private sector comes into that, other than a weird, unrelated segue at the end.
For example a parent could force a child who they think is gay (though say an android spy device the parent installs or computer activity monitoring) and bring them to me a doctor that can "cure the homosexilist disease", aka Rick Perry's definition of homosexual. :)
Great. What does that have to do with anything, and what's the problem?

Perhaps prevent idiots from breeding? Wait, the Nazis already tried that one too.
 
I just want to check that you're using state-sponsored human experimentation based on discrimination as an argument that the private sector can't be discriminatory?

Only it seem that you're making, yet again, a fine argument for requiring equal treatment of citizens by the government - and also that the state should not be controlling the medical sector. But I don't really see how the private sector comes into that, other than a weird, unrelated segue at the end.Great. What does that have to do with anything, and what's the problem?

Perhaps prevent idiots from breeding? Wait, the Nazis already tried that one too.
I kind of chimed in without looking at what the "private discrimination" chat was about, I see you said people should be able to fire/hire based on any factor they want. That's fine, its pretty much going to be that way anyways regardless of whether its made illegal to ask and or fire/hire based on sexual orientation. I was thinking of the Texas GOP support for gay therapy & the vetoed Arizona bill. I suppose those are both government issues but the private sector carries over into government too.
 
Pretty much entirely relevant to the topic that has been at hand as of late:

http://www.grandprix247.com/2014/06/17/lotus-pr-chief-fired-over-gay-tweet/

I disagree with Lotus' motives, but if the team has rules in place and he flagrantly broke them he got what was coming to him. Although, what little support Lotus had from me before is all but gone now, even though I understand they are a business and they're trying to keep a financial supporter happy.
 
Pretty much entirely relevant to the topic that has been at hand as of late:

http://www.grandprix247.com/2014/06/17/lotus-pr-chief-fired-over-gay-tweet/

I disagree with Lotus' motives, but if the team has rules in place and he flagrantly broke them he got what was coming to him. Although, what little support Lotus had from me before is all but gone now, even though I understand they are a business and they're trying to keep a financial supporter happy.
That's a strange one.... I wouldn't say the tweet was completely pro-gay, I kind of got the since the original Lotus PR tweet sort of derided gays with the pic of two men kissing as a lot of people would feel uncomfortable with it. Not to say even most would find it offensive but I thought he could have picked a different kind of tweet if he wanted to show support for the gay community.
 
... I kind of got the since the original Lotus PR tweet sort of derided gays with the pic of two men kissing as a lot of people would feel uncomfortable with it. Not to say even most would find it offensive but I thought he could have picked a different kind of tweet if he wanted to show support for the gay community...

Huh?

Sorry, I meant HUH?

I take that to mean that you're uncomfortable with it? That's kind of the problem, not only do you seem to feel that way but you think it's a natural presumption that your feeling is normal :(

He chose the wrong arena (F1 is strictly apolitical, or tries to be) but for you to seemingly pull a sheet of homophobia across the issue with your telling comment appears equally unnecessary.
 
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I'm happy with this poll results. +76% have no problem with it.

Not so happy with the 11% still living in the Dark Ages and 6% who need to read a book.
 
Not to say even most would find it offensive but I thought he could have picked a different kind of tweet if he wanted to show support for the gay community.

I think the only bit I found weird with the Lotus tweet was not that it was "pro-gay" but that it wasn't pro-sports. It'd be a bit like if I found a picture of some random black person to tweet to show how much I support LeBron James. If it had been closer to relevant (like a picture of an actually gay athlete) the Lotus Social Media guy probably would've been fine.
 
I'm happy with this poll results. +76% have no problem with it.

Not so happy with the 11% still living in the Dark Ages and 6% who need to read a book.
76% of Voters must be confused Obama supporters. The other 24% got the memo.
 
Sorry, I didn't understand your point? Could you enlighten me further?

What memo are you talking about?
The bigot one that apparently informed us that homosexuality is a sin against God that needs to be cured? You weren't CC'd? I mean, I put it with the ones from work telling me about sexual harassment trainings and how we almost got a raise this year, but didn't.


And if you are being serious: it's a figure of speech.
 
Sorry, I didn't understand your point? Could you enlighten me further?

What memo are you talking about?
The Obama memo; you know the LBGT mafia. It's sort of like a fruit cocktail expect a bit more fruity with an extra dash of Mao Zedong to give it that extra socialist taste.

The bigot one that apparently informed us that homosexuality is a sin against God that needs to be cured? You weren't CC'd? I mean, I put it with the ones from work telling me about sexual harassment trainings and how we almost got a raise this year, but didn't.


And if you are being serious: it's a figure of speech.
Obama's got his militia defending his memo, need to assembly the Justice League. America is ailing, we need a Ron Paul or better yet Jeb Bush to fix this mess.
 
@JulesJackson Don't shoot the message, and don't trust anyone with the last name Bush - they're just socialist-lite.

Though, I wouldn't actually be that surprised if 76% of people here were Obama supporters.
 
The Obama memo; you know the LBGT mafia. It's sort of like a fruit cocktail expect a bit more fruity with an extra dash of Mao Zedong to give it that extra socialist taste.


Obama's got his militia defending his memo, need to assembly the Justice League. America is ailing, we need a Ron Paul or better yet Jeb Bush to fix this mess.
1. This isn't the political debate thread, I'd rather not talk who should be president.

2. LGBT...mafia? What does that even mean?

I hope I'm missing a joke here, otherwise I've got some nice argumentative discussion ahead of me. :D
 
Though, I wouldn't actually be that surprised if 76% of people here were Obama supporters.
If you'd been paying attention you would know that is far from true.

2. LGBT...mafia? What does that even mean?
It's a term used to describe the activist wing of the LBGT community that actively work to publicly destroy anyone that says anything they deem homophobic. See: Alec Baldwin.

Of course, the anti-gay crowd loves to group everyone who disagrees with the in public debate as the LGBT Mafia. Because, you know, disagreeing in debate is the same as destroying the PR of public figures.
 
It's a term used to describe the activist wing of the LBGT community that actively work to publicly destroy anyone that says anything they deem homophobic. See: Alec Baldwin.

Of course, the anti-gay crowd loves to group everyone who disagrees with the in public debate as the LGBT Mafia. Because, you know, disagreeing in debate is the same as destroying the PR of public figures.
That's what I presumed, but I'm wondering what he's implying by saying Obama is involved and by calling it a socialist movement. Don't get me wrong, the side for equal rights has it's share of overly aggressive supporters, but to call an entire group a mafia for having a conflicting stance is a bit abrasive. I'm pretty sure it wouldn't be taken kindly if I called supporters of the "family values" group to be part of a mafia, so I'm really wanting clarification here.
 
I can see the socialist part: Think and speak like us or we will make a public example of you.

But Obama said many times he thinks marriage is between a man and woman, though his politics differ (which is actually a good thing in politicians). I think this is just a case of treating politics like sports.
 
RE: LGBT mafia, Obama involvement, socialist movement: Those three things were probably brought together because most homosexuals are liberals/socialists. One, because touchy-feely socialist rhetoric appeals to those kinds of people, two, because they've been convinced that the "right" to call same-sex unions marriage is more important than having a functional, fiscally sane country to exercise rights in (or perhaps that we can keep on borrowing, spending, and redistributing forever with no consequence). And I'd go so far as to say that all was intentional on the part of the left - their policies and rhetoric are geared toward dividing the country into factions along lines of race, gender, and sexual orientation, so people will vote in blocs based on whoever promises their faction the most stuff, which of course will be the Democrats. Such herdthinks are very powerful, especially when any prominent figure in one of these blocs who dares to think for themselves gets branded a traitor and ostracized. (see: any African-American who doesn't follow the party line getting branded an "Uncle Tom". Which makes for an interesting study of meanings, when you consider the book character that label comes from.)

As for Obama's politics differing from his words on this issue, I'd be inclined to disagree that that's a good thing - though they don't anymore anyway, as he made a public flip-flop on the issue.
 
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