The Homosexuality Discussion Thread

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I think homosexuality is:

  • a problem that needs to be cured.

    Votes: 88 6.0%
  • a sin against God/Nature.

    Votes: 145 9.8%
  • OK as long as they don't talk about it.

    Votes: 62 4.2%
  • OK for anybody.

    Votes: 416 28.2%
  • nobody's business but the people involved.

    Votes: 765 51.8%

  • Total voters
    1,476
Any place other than America is in 2050
You need to get out more. A large portion of the world is a very dangerous or even deadly place for someone in the LGBT community. It's more like 1850 than 2050 in many parts of the world. You've actually got it relatively good in the U.S. Not as good as Canada of course, but that's usually the case:sly:
 
In its most practical form, conservatism favours methods that have worked before. They see no need to change - or to try and change - a system or an idea that they are comfortable with, or which they can demonstrate as doing exactly what it is intended for. There's a certain romanticism and practicality about it.

But sometimes conservatism can morph into an extreme version of itself, and that's when things become problematic. They start to believe that because the old ways of doing things work, the new ways can never find a better way. Then they start to feel threatened by new ways of thinking, because if something new is better than the old, then that means that the old way was wrong, and that by believing in it, they were wrong. Ultimately, it can transform into the belief that progressive ideas are looking to replace traditional ideas, changing cultural values to the point where everything that the conservatives value is replaced, and the definition of what makes their culture their culture is changed.

That's really what makes the conservatives tick - the fear that one day, their sense of self will be sucked away from them and replaced with something new and alien, something that they don't stand for, value or believe in, and that they will be forced to identify with.

We progressives don't want to micro-manage the daily lives of anyone. Nor do we want to replace cultural values or discredit traditions. What we want is to find a way to develop society by finding new ways of thinking to compliment existing paradigms.


But the thing is it isn't about replacing cultural values, its about social progression, LGBT+ people are becoming more spoken in terms of how they are treated and what they want, which all we really want is equality, marriage, insurance, legal protection, medical equality, job protection, and so forth, our agenda isn't to alienate anyone or anything, I know that religion is a deep rooted cause for the conflict on a legal front, but their arguments are becoming more and more invalid, i can't remember it exactly, but i think there was one time there was a trans woman, speaking to the senator for her state (do individual states have senators?) anyway, and she was quoting something about the bible to him, and it said that her actions should result in her being stoned to death in public, and she brought a small rock with her to give to the senator and said "are you going to have the first through then" and he looked horrified/awkward at the situation he was in. there are lots of things that are sinful in the bible (which conservatives like to use as a weapon) such as shellfish (which is mentioned more times as a sin then homosexuality or anything of that nature), mixing fabrics, divorce (which happens all the time) and so forth.

I understand that this whole idea of us becoming much more public in what and who we stand for is making conservatives uneasy, but they are running out of excuses. Maybe it is time for change, why should current laws for a modern society be governed by a book that was written over 2000 years ago, when the world was a very different place. Mixed race marriage was seen as an awful thing to happen in society, but now its a fairly common thing, and I feel like its a cycle that is repeating itself.
 
Out of curiosity, has anyone in this thread actually read the full text of the law?

Basically, it says that someone who feels they have been compelled in a way that burdens their religious freedom is allowed to argue that as a legitimate claim in court. No civil rights suits or complaints will automatically be dismissed under this law. No homosexual turned away by a business will be told they have no right to complain or take action.



That said, I still believe this goes back to private property and more. You cannot compel someone to allow you access to their private property. Further, you cannot compel someone to provide a service that they do not wish to provide.

Compel is just a polite term for force. In what way does anyone in a free society believe that they can force a person to use their body to perform work for another?


In an office setting, if a new manager comes in and happens to be homosexual can the law force an employee not to quit their job because they refuse to work for a homosexual? How is a photographer and a homosexual customer any different? The customer is the boss. All work is a mutual agreement.

No one would complain if a rude customer got turned away. That's just a case of the photographer not liking that man's attitude. His religious or personal beliefs about the man's lifestyle never came into it.


I do not see how forcing someone to perform a service for you that they do not want to perform is anything other than a form serfdom.
 
Out of curiosity, has anyone in this thread actually read the full text of the law?

Basically, it says that someone who feels they have been compelled in a way that burdens their religious freedom is allowed to argue that as a legitimate claim in court. No civil rights suits or complaints will automatically be dismissed under this law. No homosexual turned away by a business will be told they have no right to complain or take action.

Of course, I even posted it along with the reason the states followed suit and drafted their own version of the Federal law. People believe what they want to because it's more fun to argue that way, in this case I wasn't as diligent as I sometimes am in beating my drum but here is the link anyway.(I also replied somewhere along the way that civil suits will ultimately decide individual outcomes.)

https://www.gtplanet.net/forum/thre...iscussion-thread.17868/page-226#post-10579461
 
Out of curiosity, has anyone in this thread actually read the full text of the law?

Basically, it says that someone who feels they have been compelled in a way that burdens their religious freedom is allowed to argue that as a legitimate claim in court. No civil rights suits or complaints will automatically be dismissed under this law. No homosexual turned away by a business will be told they have no right to complain or take action.

True... but the text shows that people can claim an enburdenment of their "religious" freedom. No case is settled by provision for hearing, and none ever has been. The pandering to the mass psychosis of "religion" in law is always dangerous, it's a victory of the imaginary over reality.
 
The pandering to the mass psychosis of "religion" in law is always dangerous, it's a victory of the imaginary over reality.

We live under a government formed with the premise no state religion can be imposed on it's people, because of that no one can impose their religion on others either. Imaginary or not, our right to live as we see fit is protected as long as in doing so we don't violate another's equal right.

As FK points out, private property rights fit into the equation as well.
 
True... but the text shows that people can claim an enburdenment of their "religious" freedom. No case is settled by provision for hearing, and none ever has been. The pandering to the mass psychosis of "religion" in law is always dangerous, it's a victory of the imaginary over reality.
When would they be able to claim enburdenment? Court. This law guarantees that a person accused of a civil or legal violation can argue that it was in their keeping with their religious practice and not have the judge refuse to accept the defense.

This also applies to the use of things like peyote, sacramental wine given to minors, etc.
 
Kinda funny that an organization known for harboring pedophiles would be exempted for giving alcohol to children.... just saying.
I grew up in a Southern Baptist church. No wine for me.

Lutherans give kids wine but can marry and have kids.

And this gets back to my issues with Paul. A church that follows his suggestion about marriage and family becomes a place that can harbor those he believed were sexually immoral.

Note: I am not trying to lump homosexuals and pedophiles together, just say that the Catholic Church allowed a place for any men or women who felt they had to hide their emotional and/or sexual desires from society.
 
1850 in the US I imagine would have been relatively safe for gays as the police back then were a joke and there was no communication technology that could catch criminals even if they viewed them as fugitives. The social stigma never really caught on it seems until about 1900 when Oregon had the YMCA scandal and they started sterilizing gays. This set about the Navy scandals that got FDR in a bit of trouble. One thing led to another and the FBI eventually started going after gays. The sterilization of homosexuals I imagine would have been opposed by the church.


The Catholic scandals, its important to note, do not involve pedophelia per say but the hebephelia category. Or something similar. I know of a man who was molested in the church. He married and had kids but then later came out as gay in old age (with grown kids). After he came out he killed himself. This us pure speculation on my part but since he had been "molested" my guess is his psychologists or family told him he was not gay. This is not usually the case.

I was raised in a catholic backround and if a priest or adult touched me I would have beaten them heavily or ran off. Unless your gay I cant imagine voluntarily having sex with an old man. Now I liked my day-care woman mostly in their 20s. I probably have been with them voluntarily. :lol: Most of these catholic abuse issues are boys who are likely GLBT, who as being young and naive, have been coerced. This is not always the case but in my opinion is the case 90% of the time.
Oh boy. I do hope you have some stats/research to back up that last broad, sweeping generalization.
 
Unless your gay I cant imagine voluntarily having sex with an old man.Most of these catholic abuse issues are boys who are likely GLBT, who as being young and naive, have been coerced.
If they have been coerced they have not consented voluntarily. If they are not of the age of consent they can not consent. That concept is literally the foundation of our entire society. The kids (yes, kids) are usually altar boys between 11-14. It's adult male priests in a position of trust who are abusing and manipulating children.

Unless your gay I cant imagine voluntarily having sex with an old man.
Unless you're a gay man. That's a pretty important part. If it was 30 year old dudes who went to the church this would be an entirely different story than priests in their 50's abusing children. Were you into 50 year old women when you were 12?

Most of these catholic abuse issues are boys who are likely GLBT, who as being young and naive, have been coerced. This is not always the case but in my opinion is the case 90% of the time.
If I were you I'd be careful about using the word naive.
 
1850 in the US I imagine would have been relatively safe for gays as the police back then were a joke and there was no communication technology that could catch criminals even if they viewed them as fugitives. The social stigma never really caught on it seems until about 1900 when Oregon had the YMCA scandal and they started sterilizing gays. This set about the Navy scandals that got FDR in a bit of trouble. One thing led to another and the FBI eventually started going after gays. The sterilization of homosexuals I imagine would have been opposed by the church.


The Catholic scandals, its important to note, do not involve pedophelia per say but the hebephelia category. Or something similar. I know of a man who was molested in the church. He married and had kids but then later came out as gay in old age (with grown kids). After he came out he killed himself. This us pure speculation on my part but since he had been "molested" my guess is his psychologists or family told him he was not gay. This is not usually the case.

I was raised in a catholic backround and if a priest or adult touched me I would have beaten them heavily or ran off. Unless your gay I cant imagine voluntarily having sex with an old man. Now I liked my day-care woman mostly in their 20s. I probably have been with them voluntarily. :lol: Most of these catholic abuse issues are boys who are likely GLBT, who as being young and naive, have been coerced. This is not always the case but in my opinion is the case 90% of the time.

Just a big fat citation required for the lot.

Quite frankly I amazed that someone could effectively blame the victims on such a massive scale!

Oh and "boys who are likely GLBT", lesbian boys? Did you even think about this before you posted it? As it reads like an early Vatican 'its not the priests fault these kids are so damn sexy' excuse.
 
I know of a man who was molested in the church. He married and had kids but then later came out as gay in old age (with grown kids). After he came out he killed himself. This us pure speculation on my part but since he had been "molested" my guess is his psychologists or family told him he was not gay. This is not usually the case.

I was raised in a catholic backround and if a priest or adult touched me I would have beaten them heavily or ran off. Unless your gay I cant imagine voluntarily having sex with an old man. Now I liked my day-care woman mostly in their 20s. I probably have been with them voluntarily. :lol: Most of these catholic abuse issues are boys who are likely GLBT, who as being young and naive, have been coerced. This is not always the case but in my opinion is the case 90% of the time.
This is one of the most damaging things that can be said of sexually abused children. This kind of abuse happens outside the church and from adults of both sexes. I can look at sex predator listing sites and find couples who abused children of both sexes together.

Do you think sex abusers have a sixth sense for which prepubescent children are gay, or whichever way they want them to be? No. They build a trusting relationship with them and use that for their own whims. Priest abuse was not about being abused by a stranger. It was about obeying a trusted authority figure, whose authority and trustworthiness was unknowingly confirmed by their parents every time they saw him. A child that has never thought about sex yet won't know what is right or wrong about what is happening.

Saying a heterosexual child abused in a homosexual scenario must be some form of LBGT only adds to the psychological issues they develop later on, questioning who they are. I think you would have a much easier case saying the abuse damages them on a deep psychological level that causes them to never know exactly what they are. Abuse victims exhibit signs of sexual disorder (Among other things), either partaking in reckless behavior or abstaining almost completely. I have little doubt that experimentation in all ways is a part of the reckless behavior.

If you ever meet a sex abuse victim from a same sex predator please, for the love of whatever you find holy, do not indicate that you think they must be LBGT to have "voluntarily" participated. This was not some 15-year-old, horny boy sleeping with his former cheerleader teacher wet dream.

Ever hear about the teacher feeding the kids spoonfuls of his semen? Was every boy in that class gay, bi, or transgendered in your view?
 
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No I dont believe (in my honest opinion) child molestation should be blamed completely on the victims, but in a lot of cases I think the absolute guilt falls on both parties. I exaggerated my opinion when I say that 90% of cases the victim is partly at fault, I was referring to the older victims of the church and I know its not right to blame the victim but our justice system blames kids all the time for molesting each other.... Since they do it I find it hard to believe why I'm expected to never do it on a message board.
I'm at a total loss to understand at all how sexual abuse (as in a non-consensual sexual activity) is ever the fault of the victim, regardless of age?

You do actually understand what non-consensual means?

If someone does give consent and they are forced into sexual activity they are not to blame, anyone who believes otherwise is quite frankly a worry.


It depends on the individual situation. The teacher's molestation of the whole class through this "tasting experiment" is an extreme example. I could give horrifying examples of violent crimes that are worse than others but each case is individual and I think its fair to say that.
Yes different orders of magnitude exist, that however doesn't make any form of non-consensual sexual activity acceptable on any level.


Recently in Illinois, 4 teenagers were charged with being in possession and distributing child porn after having consensual sex. They will now likely register as sex offenders or in a lot of people's eyes as child predators. Although it is thought the only ones who saw the child porn voluntarily were the police detectives (having viewed the porn video at some point to make the charges....) Some may have accidentally viewed it and been charged. There are many cases of individuals who accidentally stumble across it.
Stumble across it?



Its been said that most personal computers have had an illegal picture or video downloades at some point or viewed.
Citation required.

I'm going to say right now from a staff moderation point of view, your posts and the attitudes that are being expressed in them are seriously concerning.
 
I'm at a total loss to understand at all how sexual abuse (as in a non-consensual sexual activity) is ever the fault of the victim, regardless of age?

You do actually understand what non-consensual means?

If someone does give consent and they are forced into sexual activity they are not to blame, anyone who believes otherwise is quite frankly a worry.



Yes different orders of magnitude exist, that however doesn't make any form of non-consensual sexual activity acceptable on any level.



Stumble across it?




Citation required.

I'm going to say right now from a staff moderation point of view, your posts and the attitudes that are being expressed in them are seriously concerning.
Scaff you do not have to look really hard to find cases where people have unknowingly viewed child porn.

http://www.theguardian.com/technology/2007/apr/19/hitechcrime.money


Scaff I'm not saying that rape is correct but there are minors who are charged with statutory raping themselves. I'm just expressing my opinion that not in all cases is the victim a total victim. There are varying degrees of sex offenses.

http://www.ethicaltreatment.org/stories.htm

I get a feeling that not all cases of "rape" are straightforward rape. Its easy for accusations to get thrown out like wildfire. The Catholic abuses are large scale in number with new allegations popping up many that are decades old. I'm simply expressing disagreement of what is defined as rape, as statutory rape can in some cases be used on two minors, that's all. If I disagree with mainstream opinion that is my opinion, if you could show me what use policy I'm violating for disagreement on the general sentiment here? I've show some dis-agreement with how some government policy is used perhaps but again it varies depending on what country your in and this is an international board.

I'll add that I'm trying to play devils advocate for the catholic priests, or for some of them I'm not advocating for abusing kids. I think there's a difference between ad vocation of sliding scale justice rather than cookie cutter law.
 
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Scaff you do not have to look really hard to find cases where people have unknowingly viewed child porn.

http://www.theguardian.com/technology/2007/apr/19/hitechcrime.money
That sources doesn't actually support the point you just made, in fact it doesn't even discuss it!


Scaff I'm not saying that rape is correct but there are minors who are charged with statutory raping themselves. I'm just expressing my opinion that not in all cases is the victim a total victim. There are varying degrees of sex offenses.

http://www.ethicaltreatment.org/stories.htm
Unless you know of any priests who are minors then I'm not entirely sure what that has to do with the discussion at hand?

I get a feeling that not all cases of "rape" are straightforward rape. Its easy for accusations to get thrown out like wildfire. The Catholic abuses are large scale in number with new allegations popping up many that are decades old. I'm simply expressing disagreement of what is defined as rape, as statutory rape can in some cases be used on two minors, that's all.
Once again I'm not aware of any child priests, as such we are not discussing two minors at all.


If I disagree with mainstream opinion that is my opinion, if you could show me what use policy I'm violating for disagreement on the general sentiment here? I've show some dis-agreement with how some government policy is used perhaps but again it varies depending on what country your in and this is an international board.
Your attitude towards holding victims as even partially to blame for abuse is a concern, as I have said.

I'll add that I'm trying to play devils advocate for the catholic priests, or for some of them I'm not advocating for abusing kids. I think there's a difference between ad vocation of sliding scale justice rather than cookie cutter law.
Your not advocating it, but you most certainly are excusing it and attempting to mitigate it based on some perceived action by the victims.

To be rather blunt not only does the Catholic church have an issue with abuse by priests, but it also has for decades attempted to hide and protect those it knew to be guilty of these offences.
 
No I dont believe (in my honest opinion) child molestation should be blamed completely on the victims, but in a lot of cases I think the absolute guilt falls on both parties. I exaggerated my opinion when I say that 90% of cases the victim is partly at fault, I was referring to the older victims of the church and I know its not right to blame the victim but our justice system blames kids all the time for molesting each other.... Since they do it I find it hard to believe why I'm expected to never do it on a message board.

Okay. Stop. The victim holds no blame what so ever if they are molested/raped. Guilt plays a role, but that's normally associated with the psychologically damage that is left on the victim after the act is committed. The rapist however should feel guilt (whether they do or not is something different) as they have violated someone far too intimately.

What does molesting have to do with a message board?

It depends on the individual situation. The teacher's molestation of the whole class through this "tasting experiment" is an extreme example. I could give horrifying examples of violent crimes that are worse than others but each case is individual and I think its fair to say that.

It seems more like some perverted kink that the teacher had as opposed to molesting. It's still horrifyingly wrong, but i wouldn't (personally) class it as molestation. The teacher is still breaking that trust of someone in a position of power though.

Recently in Illinois, 4 teenagers were charged with being in possession and distributing child porn after having consensual sex. They will now likely register as sex offenders or in a lot of people's eyes as child predators. Although it is thought the only ones who saw the child porn voluntarily were the police detectives (having viewed the porn video at some point to make the charges....) Some may have accidentally viewed it and been charged. There are many cases of individuals who accidentally stumble across it.

I heard about this story, they are being charged with distributing child pornography because they were all under the age of consent (and i thought that they were having sex with each other) and then filmed it and distributed it. (recalling from memory of the article) And yes the police viewed it, as it was evidence, they had to watch it. That is different then voluntarily finding and watching the material.

And for something like Child Pornography, you do not just "stumble across it." You have to actively find that stuff.. its not just floating on a google result after searching "P*rn" on Google or Bing.

Its been said that most personal computers have had an illegal picture or video downloades at some point or viewed.

It has been said. Has it been proven?
 
It is being reported that Barry Manilow has married his manager, Garry, in a private ceremony.

The irony is not lost on me talking about it, but the way some sections of the media talk about celebrities (and "celebrities") being gay or not, coming out or not, is bloody awful. Good for them, hope they're very happy.
 
I hope that in 5-10 years from now we'll all feel a bit silly about the way celebrities are assumed straight until announced otherwise. Perhaps the very act of 'coming out' will become a quirk consigned to history
 
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I was trying to make a light-hearted joke, and maybe Elton John wasn't the best example, but my point still stands that based on statistics and probably it is reasonable to assume that most celebrities (and people in general) are straight unless told otherwise.
 
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