Yet statistically, the woman, the baby and the man would all be better off if she didn't have this choice.
It's the fact that you said the choice to abort or not abort is "only" a matter of 9-10 months for the mother (bearing the child), while denying the man his child would affect him "for life."
I'm sorry, but that's simply not true. What if the woman knew she could not afford to raise a child, or was forced by her boyfriend/spouse to get the abortion? Then she'd be the one affected "for life" by your terms. There are also women who willingly get abortions and then regret them later. Are they not affected for life?
It may not surprise you that I have zero religious background, and that my only exposure to religion has been through extended family, friends, school (last semester I took a neat and interesting class that covered most of the major eastern and western religions), and the media.
No. I don't think a man needs to be concerned for a child he conceived. He should, especially when the woman can't take care of it by herself, but I don't think he has to. I have no right to make that kind of judgment.
Sorry, I'm as serious as can be here, and there's no silliness that I can see. My beliefs are just (apparently) far different from yours.
Who said they thought they might regret it? I'm not saying that going through with an abortion without thinking hard about it first is a good thing, but it isn't rare for someone to end up regretting a decision that they thought they were sure of.Women who think they might regret abortions shouldn't have them in the first place. I have no sympathy for a women who wants to kill herself for having an abortion.
That would be nice, but it often isn't quite that easy.If a woman wants a baby, but that man doesn't, she should have the baby but have the man sign away any parental rights or financial burden, much like if the woman didn't want the child, but the man did.
What about the hardships the woman will have to go through in having the child to begin with? That's something she will no doubt want to avoid if she doesn't want a child.I'm not religious, either. But I do think life begins at conception, to a degree. But, when there are no signs of a "difficult birth" and a man wants it, the woman should have the child, then give it up with no financial or emotional attachments whatsoever. Single parenting might not be easy, but it is possible.
According to yourself earlier, that's silly.I don't think he has to, either, if he doesn't want it. I obviously don't think she has to, either, if she doesn't want it.
Sounds like you are pro-anarchy more than pro-freedom.
Danoff, where exactly would you draw the line? True freedom for an individual would by necessity impact on another's freedom, would it not?
meYour rights cannot conflict with someone else's. If they do, you don't have them.
ledhedLOL ... I kinda admired the Judge as someone who had a VALUE system and it came through in his speach ..something all too rare in this PC world
I take exception to that comment. That is not how a termination occurs (well, not in the UK anyway).So with this logic, women who have abortions suffer from misopedia and misandry? I mean, they must really hate children if they don't mind having its head cut off, its arms cut off, its legs cut off and then yanked out of their bodies, right?
And heart attacks considered suicide?Otherwise a miscarriage would be classed as manslaughter.
I'm avoiding the abortion debate. Danoff and I discussed my opinions on this in length a while back in the abortion thread. Look at that. There's an abortion thread.