On the subject of FFB being unrealistic in nature, yeah that's true most of what you feel in a real car is through the chassis and not the wheel, you don't even feel most bumps because they aren't transmitted through the steering rack. The problem is also though that the FFB self alignment torque isn't particularly good either, it's not particularly accurate in when it loosens off or tightens up, it can definitely give you mixed messages and I've found the more you turn it down the faster you can drive.
Yes it was very odd, that's why I posted about it and I'm not the only person who has had the issue (VW Golf biggest offender). Even throwing aside the issue of cars being inconsistent with this, not a single car in the game for me is ideal at 900 degrees with 100 saturation and soft lock, it's all to ****, yet it was something I specifcally did in DR1 with the older cars.
I'm able to get around with the settings so it's not like I can't enjoy the game, but it's a talking point for sure.