I don't rev the pants off a car every time I drive it. I do enjoy it, though, and I don't mind doing it when I need to. Just because something is true for you doesn't mean it's true for anyone, regardless of how much more experience you have.
I am fully aware of this. Which is why I have been so extensive in explaining why
I find the S2000 to be meh. The reason I jumped into this is because some members were more or less comparing numbers, telling others that "torque doesn't matter," and all while having no actual experience.
I may not have the automotive experience that you have, but I have driven thousands of miles in different cars and different situations. I've experienced traffic jams, in a manual, and I honestly didn't think it was that bad. For me, what's annoying about traffic is being stuck, not having to use a clutch. But that's for a different thread.
The first year I drove, I put down over 20,000 miles (32k km) in a small econo-box. We've discussed your experience with traffic jams (which is nothing compared to proper urban congestion) and your longer haul trips (which aren't that long) and you've conceded that you aren't as experienced. But the difference is orders of magnitude, as I've driven hundreds of thousands of miles
And using the clutch gets tiresome after you are stuck in traffic for 3+ hours of never even seeing the speedo register.
I'm not saying I'm not an idiot or a douche, because I am and I'll own up to it. But I try to treat you with respect and I'd appreciate it if you returned the favour.
The fact I spend time discussing anything with you is a sign of respect. So often I'll just disregard what people say because it isn't even worth the time. By engaging you in discussion, I respect you enough to think you're intelligent enough to actually ponder on what I am saying rather than just repeating what I already know. Which is what Bopop did with the numbers, engineering, and so on.
Also, self-depreciation into what amounts to "but..." is a very, very weak form of presentation. Unless for comic devices.
The attitude that I'm getting from your post is that you think you're more qualified, smarter, and better than me simply because you're older and more experienced.
I don't think I am, I
know I am.
That's probably true, but it won't be for everyone, and I'm old enough and experienced to know what I like in a car right now. In 10 years my tastes may change, sure, but it doesn't mean my tastes in 10 years are superior to my tastes now. I have my opinions, you have yours, and we don't overlap very much. But it doesn't make either of us wrong, and I'd appreciate it if you didn't write my opinion off as invalid just because you're older and more experienced than I am, and I'd imagine that Bopop feels the same way.
I don't think your opinions are invalid. What I do think is invalid are these tiresome opinions about what a sports car is, how people should be expected to drive, what does and doesn't matter in a car, to disregard torque, endless posting of specs and engineering "facts," and so on, all why having no actual experience. The way you and Bebop go about these things isn't any different than how Harry does, minus being a bit more articulate.
You seem to think I argue to "win," as far too many people view discussion/argument as a debate to be won. The reality is I argue with people in the hopes they'll consider the other side, evaluate their own understanding, and try to see the other side of the coin. This is why you'll see me arguing both sides to theology, politics, cars, gaming, etc. and by doing so, I hope they will open their mind up. Also, being able to construct and articulate arguments helps one to better understand themselves, so by doing this I am being a touch selfish in that it forces to me to learn more and present myself better. And yes, I am this contrary in person, this prone to discussion and debate, so it isn't some Internet only asshole persona I have. I get called an asshole plenty in person as well
I feel like that a lot
It happens
But because you're better about presenting yourself, it is easier to understand your position, which makes it easier to discuss things with you, and you've come to appreciate other views more.
Even if I don't agree with your opinions, I do appreciate the knowledge that can be gained when they are expressed.