Yes I know this thread is old but I want to ask Jordan/ other mods something. Do you guys actually participate as normal members, because I don't see posts from you lot often, exept to close threads and stuff. And who has been a mod the longest(apart from Jordan)?
I have a question on the same lines -
does having the mantle of a moderator weighing on your shoulders affect your interactions with regular members?
For example - I am at a Forum where the mods rarely post - when they do they are always kind, helpful, polite, (in fact their posts come off as very 'smiley'), humorous in a formal sort of way, and I can hardly remember any of them being literally aggressive - they behave like very-concerned customer- service reps. However, AFAIK, whenever someone has being served an infraction (the members at this Forum are so nuts that they actually have a 'Club' that one must have at least one infraction to join) the infraction always comes from a Moderator who never posts as a member - (in the sense of actually contributing to the discussion.)
Then there is the rumour that some 'ordinary' members who post regularly are actually moderators incognito - so we never know, and are wary of being mean to each other - because it could be a mod we're peeing off.
I, myself, at this Forum, actually enjoy talking to anyone on the staff here - they have always treated me with respect, kindness, and I've found that they have been elected mods because they have a wealth of information in their heads, a usually great sense of humour, a high tolerance, and no lack of firmness when needed - in fact about one of the best teams of 'open' mods I have met anywhere on the 'net.
But as a mod - do you
hold back when you interact with regular members? Or do you let your hair down the way you would if you were a regular member (but a mod in disguise?)
Cheers, all the best - and many thanks to all of you for the great (and maybe sometimes unrewarding) job you do for all of us here.
Harry.