Swift
Do you tell childen everything? Especially right of the bat?
I can think of no single instance in the history of mankind where the
suppression of knowledge has been, in the long run, a good thing.
Heck,
yes, I tell my children everything. In a world where all they have to survive on is their intellect, they need every tool and all the information available to them. They need to be able to make informed decisions every day of their lives, and the earlier they can do so, the better.
Does this mean that I taught my 6-year-old the mechanics of sex? No. But I
did teach her that men and women do something that causes a baby to start growing in the woman, and that's where she came from. What would be the purpose of teaching her that the stork left her or that angels brought her? Why not teach her the facts, and add detail as it becomes appropriate for her age? I've made damn sure that my 13-year-old has had a complete health class that
does include the mechanics of sex. It's fundamental information that it is critically important she has available.
It doesn't take any training to figure out how to use your genitals. But it
does take a lot of education to understand an appreciate the consequences. Again, why would I cripple that effort by denying knowledge to my kids?
It's like teaching toddlers baby talk when they are just learning to speak. It's not only unneccessary,
it's counterproductive. Say I teach my 3-year-old to say "choo choo". Then, 3 years later,
I'm just going to have to teach her to say "train" instead. Why start her out with a disadvantage - with incomplete or wrong information that she has to unlearn?
People tell me all the time how smart my kids are, and their test scores and grades show it too. It's not superior genetics, or even a concerted effort on our parts to
make them excel. It's 100% attributable to the fact that we've never falsified or dumbed anything down in our explanations. Particularly not when answering their questions on topics
they initiate.
Do people have rules they have to follow? Even in today's world? Follow the rules or face the penalty. This is not a concept exclusive to the bible. It exists in any society that we would deem civilized. Adam and Eve only had one rule. Don't eat from one of the umpteen trees in the garden. Adam disobeyed God and thus the fall of man began.
But you're missing the fundamental point -
why was that rule in place?
The rule was in place so that Man would not presume to know God's secrets. The rule was in place so that Man could be controlled by his lack of knowledge. This is why God never explained
why he made the rule.
So, say I tell my 5-year-old not to touch an electrical outlet. No explanation, just a bald, meaningless rule. Not very effective parenting. Yet if I explain that the same electricity that makes her lamp light up and the oven get hot will make
her light up and get hot, maybe enough to kill her,
then she has a clear understanding of why the rule exists.
Then I'm not simply
dictating some incomprehensible and arbitrary rule to her; I'm getting her understanding and buy-in. I'm giving her another
tool she can use to generalize her understanding of the world. Yet I'm
still preventing the undesirable action - and in fact more effectively than if I was simply authoritarian about it.
Do you see?
Of course rules are part and parcel of civilization. But arbitrary, dictatorial rules are
not. Rules exist so that humans can coexist and prosper together. They do not exist for their own sake. Understanding and information allows people to make informed, rational decisions about their own actions. Authoritarian rules with secret motives keep people under control. This is the fundamental evil of the concept of Original Sin,
not that mankind dared to question God.
Now, in answer to your question, I made my choice largely based on the event that Sage quoted. That was my reaction to being taught the basics of Judeo-Christianity; it conflicted utterly with what I had learned and figured out for myself by that young age. Since then I have done reasonably extensive reading both of religious texts and of their analyses and religious history. I've also observed the happenings of the physical world in which I live.
The fundamental discord that I noted has been borne out by logical induction and simply thinking about what I see. I have determined no reason that the world must be explained by supernatural means; therefore I have not selected a supernatural philosophy. I am confronted with the choice between an observed, physical world that follows stable, predictable laws (even chaos is predictable in some ways), and a literally infinite number of unknown, by definition unknowable, worlds that follow arbitrary laws which are
not based on any observable phenomena.
Frankly, I don't understand why that's even a choice. But I made
it; it didn't make
me.