The General Relationship Thread
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I agree with cnd01, but only ask one of them. Asking one after the other has turned you down will look pretty needy.
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I'm only thinking about asking her closest friend because she invited me to her home and considers that I'm a really nice guy
I'm scared that girls talk a lot of trash behind people's backs.
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Yeah, quite a bit of cool-off time needed in that situation. As long as it looks like you've gradually got close to the other girl over time, I think it would be ok.
I'm only thinking about asking her closest friend because she invited me to her home and considers that I'm a really nice guy
Go for the girl you like the most, not because one is being nicer to you!
I'm scared that girls talk a lot of trash behind people's backs.
That's for them to worry about, not you. If you find out a girl is talking about you behind your back (in a negative way), she isn't worth knowing.
I'm only thinking about asking her closest friend because she invited me to her home and considers that I'm a really nice guy
Go for the girl you like the most, not because one is being nicer to you!
I'm scared that girls talk a lot of trash behind people's backs.
That's for them to worry about, not you. If you find out a girl is talking about you behind your back (in a negative way), she isn't worth knowing.
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So should I ask her friend now then? I'm frightened to death that the other 3 dudes who want her will make a move. If I have her best friend on my side she could persuade her.
I'm only going for the first one.
I'm only going for the first one.
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Ask the girl that you want the most face-to-face. Give a 🤬 about the other guys, their business is their business!
Trying to get her friend to persuade her will have the opposite effect, be confident and ask her directly.
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Wouldn't it be better if she made the decision her self to go out with you instead of being persuaded into it. Just saying...
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So, yeah after some thought about my situation on the other page. I don't think I'm gonna make things official until after all my holidays and exams. I really like this gal and she really likes me, So I talked to her about it and she says she is happy to wait because she feels a relationship consisting of us is worth waiting for. 👍
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Yeah, that's my angle. It's not my intention to do anything abroad but just in case this gives me some 'breathing room' in-case I do end up acting the goat on the lads holiday.
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Yeah, that's my angle. It's not my intention to do anything abroad but just in case this gives me some 'breathing room' in-case I do end up acting the goat on the lads holiday.
Yep, you're not in a committed relationship, and anything that happens out there will be for short-term fun only. It's actually the law to go bonkers on a lads holiday to any of the party islands - just be thankful that you're going to Ibiza and not Ayia Napa or Kos!
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Yup, very excited to be honest! We heavily considered the other 2 locations but ultimately Ibiza won us over, in San Antonio too!
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Awesome, sunset at Café del Mar and then off to Ibiza Town to get Pacha'd!
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- Johnnypenso
Not if you have really big stones...lol.
You're in your head too much. Ask the one you like the most, damn the consequences. Don't worry about the other dudes, other chicks, whatever. Go for broke, worst she can do is say no, and you're back where you started. If you like another of her friends, ask her out. if the first one says no. The more you ask out the more successful you'll be.
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I can't ask her friend directly, but only on facebook
One of them failed to date her twice, but hangs out with her nonstop. The other guy is my friend. I think I'm the only one she has personally invited to her home.
I can't read her mind. She's very friendly with me but I don't know her relationship with the others. She said: "I have had no social life until you came along"
She also touches me and puts her hand on my shoulder. A first amongst all of us.
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Then wait until you next see her (the girl you want) in person.
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I'm confused
, are you talking about the girl I like or her friend?It's a simple question: Should I talk to her friend about it or not?
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I'm confused
It's a simple question: Should I talk to her friend about it or not?
It's a simple answer. Don't talk to her friend about it, you have no reason to.
The girl you want = the girl you want to date. When you next see her (the girl you want to date) face-to-face (in person, not by SMS or Faceache) ask her out (to be boyfriend and girlfriend).
Got it?
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Got it. 👍
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- Johnnypenso
Agreed, except don't mention the gf/bf part. You are asking for a date, a chance to spend some alonetime with her, not asking for a commitment before you even go out. Have some fun, enjoy yourselves. the rest will happen naturally.
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Ok after so last night, again, I stood up until midnight talking to her. Today I spent lunch with her. Later I went to her friends house and I watched a movie with the two. As I walked her home I was opening my mouth and beginning to tell her that I wanted to go out and just then her mom came walking down the street! 
And just like that the magical moment was crushed and she still doesn't know. You can't make this stuff up, I want to punch a kitten now 
And just like that the magical moment was crushed and she still doesn't know. You can't make this stuff up, I want to punch a kitten now
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- Johnnypenso
Close, just keep trying:tup:👍
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- Antarctica
I asked her out today it was the perfect opportunity and she said "yes!" I couldn't gather my words so I asked her if she was serious
and again the most confident and composed "yes" came out again. Only problem is that tonight I'm going to her friends birthday and my new girlfriends former boyfriend will be there
. Let's see how this goes (he doesn't know about the hook up but he knows I like her).
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Finally! Nice work.
On the subject of the ex-boyfriend, he's her ex, he has no say.
On the subject of the ex-boyfriend, he's her ex, he has no say.
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Congrats terminator! I'm sure, and hoping for your sake, that nothing bad will happen tonight. Like Marina said, he has no say. It shouldn't be a problem.
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