I admit I'm having a hard time understanding your post. My best guess: You're suggesting that its unfair that areas with lots of people have more voting power?
You were the one to suggest that one area is essentially equivalent to 19 states having the minimum amount of delegates possible is unfair, and assuming it was logical to begin with. On the other hand, I find it completely logical that a state determines its choice of president via the majority of the district's decisions, regardless of population count between them. Do I find it unfair that areas with large populations, within a congressional district, have more voting power than a lesser populated, but larger district? No, so long as the said district covers an area of constituents within the same or similar realms.
It's not like people living in cities completely homogenize into a single entity.
Of course not, as I said in my initial post, Clinton won Fulton county by 186k votes (297k/111k). It would be foolish to think that urban areas only vote for democrats/liberal and rural areas only vote republican/conservative. It is not foolish to think however, that a hive-mind aspect doesn't overshadow these cities, which can be shown via funding statistics.
Why should an individual in Chicago or LA have less voting power than somebody in Kilgore TX?
A better example would be the relation between someone within Chicago and someone within Springfield, IL. Two different congressional districts within the state, and at the same time having a Democrat and a Republic represent them respectively. Why should the representative in Chicago, who controls an area far less than that of the individual in control of the Springfield area, have any larger of a voting power? Within the "area" of Chicago and it's outlying cities, there are nearly 8-9 different districts who see over roughly the same type of geographical features, but varying economical contributors. For people living so close together, is there really that much of a change between a 45 minute drive into four different districts? If anyone wants to blame the EC, blame it on this reason alone for population density being the sole factor, and not a correlation of economical drives, and geographical necessities.
but that's largely the GOP's fault.
If the GOP had any long term strategy, they would see that they are getting absolutely destroyed in cities all across the US and that their voter base is shrinking and dying off. They have no clue how to reach urban voters or younger voters (generally) and they won't even try beyond troll antics.
I couldn't really care for what a party's stance is on issues, but rather the individual themselves and likable factors (including that of policy (which yes, may follow that of the party but at it's core, and especially with Trump, is subject to change a moment's notice)).
As far as reaching to a more broad, including younger audience, I'd be forced to say that the vocal majority is predominantly democratic, but that does not mean that they are the voting majority. I'm not well versed in the voting demographics of those aged between 18-30 statistically wise, and considering my more conservative leaning myself (and falling within that age demographic), I notice more people around me conservative leaning than I do with whom I associate those who do not. That may be because bringing up the conversation in a public matter tends to divide (Why is beyond me... It's like saying one color of grey is too black, or the other is too white) these days rather than taking a form of an intellectual approach and properly understanding both sides of an argument.
Me personally, this election I see being handed to Trump, or as it were from the onset of debates and formal discussion between democratic candidates. Their proposals were illogical to me, and simply do not benefit my overall well-being or interests. Some of their history is questionable at best (and with this Ukraine debacle it becomes even more of a comedic disappointment every day as some suggest it is unfair to investigate an opponent during an election, while on the other hand the opposition was being prevented from coming to office) and their attitude does not put out an appealing image. They have no clear leader within the party of those in the election, and even now within the elected officials. With each investigation brought to the surface that ends in failure, they treat it as a smear campaign against those individuals while myself I see it as a waste of time, money, and a disappointment to those who actually voted for these individuals. This impeachment inquiry is now the pinnacle of democratic politics and if it fails, they'll have no alternative as far as removing Trump for the next 5 years, and preventing their own party to collapse with from within.
Of course, all that means is 5 more years of Trump's nudes potentially being leaked from some Ukrainian comedians to Adam Schiff...