1 - GT5 is a video game. It is not real. If it is to you, that is your bed to lay in. Gran Turismo is by far my favorite video game series out there. But in the end of the day, my life doesn't revolve around to it a degree in which I need to "let go" in a public forum due to disappointments.
2 - Before you began to insinuate that I am posting a personal attack against your person, you must realize that I am only making an observation. I just question your emotional envolvement in a video game, and why you let it reach this point. Life presents many a circumstance that requires a daily emotional "investment", and in all reality, it should not involve video games. If you do not want people to question your emotions, keep them out of your posts.
3 - Are you searching for a congratulatory response from this community for highlighting problems in a video game? Sounds like it to me. Again, your emotional attachment to this title is puzzling.
4 - Of course the positives in GT5 have been discussed. And as I, and others have expected, they outweigh the problems. That is, unless it's people like you. GT5 will ultimately be a game that will supply hundreds of hours of entertainment over the course of a few years to me, and thousands like me. Why not just enjoy it? I know you have it in you, being how you play other "imperfect" racing titles.
5 - Once again, I agree with you. Kaz, PD, and the GTP community have set expectations for GT5. If what we have seen of GT5 troubles you, then isn't it obvious that your expectations were to high? If your state of mind is at a such a level, you best move on.
6 - With Forza Motorsports, I understand you now. Your pre-concieved notions of what Turn 10 and Forza 3 were low enough, so when the game finally came out, it was the level of quality you were expecting. With me, it was the complete opposite. I expected much more in the driving gameplay and track layouts (for example). I even put another 360 in my house (with Forza 3). Needless to say, I do not own the game anymore. Oh well. Such is life. Hopefully Forza 4 will be better.
7 - So yes, you have a deep rooted emotional attachment to a video game that led to some level of emotional distress. You now feel the need to post all your issues in a forum. If that's what you need for "closure", so be it. Just don't expect people such as myself to be quiet in the matter as you heal yourself.
8 - Ironically, I do have one concern when it comes to GT5. It's my ability to wait another 4 months. But if you want me to take an objective viewpoint in the matter, let me say this. While in GT Mode, I do not want the game to throw money at me (IE Forza 3, and GTPSP). I want to earn my credits the hard way, so I can finally purchase those racing brakes. But you know something? If it doesn't work out that way, you won't see me in these forums getting all emotional about it.