Well, maybe at some point, I will repeat something for the nth time, and I apologize for that beforehand; although, sometimes certain things have to be brought back, but from another point of view.
Anyway, I'm curious as for the point in the thread right now, I mean: What is the argument at this moment?
I know this may sound like oversimplifying the issue right now, but, if you will, please take a look at my signature for a moment. Nothing weird, right? Well, maybe for the part in japanese (in katakana, to be exact, and that's actually my name) there is nothing else, a link to the TidySigs thread, one line to tell anyone that could need help translating to contact me, and one line, which reads: "Life's only complicated if you want it to be".
What do I mean by this, and why did I bring it up? Simple.
There are some things that you can choose in this life, and there are some things you cannot. For example, I didn't get to choose which country I was born in (and, despite the current situation, I love my country), I didn't get to pick my parents, and I didn't get to pick my day of birth (which came up 3 months too soon). For those things, I simply accept them and move on. Why? Because I can't do anything about them, even if I tried. Some things in life (including your basic instincts) fall into this category.
As I pointed out before, I believe homosexuality (or not) is not a thing that you can merely choose, as if you were buying a shirt, or trying to figure out what you're having for dinner tonight. It's like this because that's not a conscious choice; it's something deeper, and simpler, actually. I mentioned intincts before because this is the part they come into play: instincts govern our most basics needs and desires (this is not the actual word I want to use, but I can't think of a suitable replacement), and I believe that sexual preference is one of these instincts. You can't actually choose what happens; it just does. If you check the comments made by the 3 members mentioned before, and some questioning by another member, you'll see that there's proof of this.
Now, for the things that you can choose, comes the part about caring or not about this whole issue. For example, if people start digging up derogatory terms for "latinos" and start shouting them at me, would I care? No. Why not? Because I choose not to care. I choose to keep my life simple, and not care about that sort of thing. Does gay marriage affect me in any way? No, I don't believe it does. Does it affect my faith? I don't see why, my beliefs are intact. Does it affect the government? Why should it?
In the end, it all becomes a matter of choice. Why do you make the choice to care/not care about something?
As the line in my signature says, you alone have the power to make matters complicated, or keep them simple.
And, while I was writing...
Duke
Believe what you want. It doesn't make it anything remotely approaching the truth, particularly not when it's been roundly gainsaid by every single person in this thread who's actually in a position to know.
Exactly. What else can I say? For the 'proof' stated above, well, there it is.