Ok, I'm chiming in on this. We are attempting to run an organized and relaxed trail riding club inside of an online video game that is completely based on tom-foolery and chaos. There will be some incidences no matter what any rules say. That said, we should be able to limit the outbreaks and at least keep people from fighting with each other and ending the meet hating one another. I saw no reason to ban anyone or for anyone to leave today. Someone got a little carried away in the moment, another let their temper get away a bit, it happens. Many of us don't know each other very well, so it's necessary to show respect and use extra care to not give the wrong impression with our actions.
Some rules that I believe will help avoid these instances:
1. No aircraft allowed during scheduled meets. If we want a specific photo op that's fine, but there's no other reason for it that I can see. The noise they make is annoying and they get in the way. If you feel the need to get to the meet quicker, grab an Adder or something.
2. No weapons allowed during the scheduled meets. It is way to easy to accidentally kill a player the way our characters lock onto targets. If you feel the need to smash a car with a golf club, there are plenty of open lobbies for that, it's unnecessary on a trail ride.
Aside from that, I don't see any need for further changes at this moment.