So, it is no longer a matter of what is faster, or more fuel efficient.
It is nearly PURELY a matter of choice.
This is the crux of the matter, and in the US the choice is slowly but surely going away.
Unfortunately since the market for pure "drivers" cars (whether they be true 3-pedal manuals or more modern DSG types) is far outweighed by the market for SUVs / People Carriers / Family Cars / Hybrid econoboxes, in which the driving isn't about the experience, purely a method of transporting people or things from one place to another, and it seems the simpler this process can be made for most people, the better.
Unfortunately this enabling technology isn't necessarily making the roads any better. Back in the fabulously chauvanistic days of the 1940s & 1950s when Automatics first emerged and motoring was still generally the preserve of the mechanically-inclined gentleman, the automatic gearbox was ferociously marketed as a simpler way for women, who couldn't be expected to wrap their pretty little 1950s heads around the complexities of an extra pedal and a moveable lever, to be able to drive. (This, of course, goes without saying doesn't reflect my own views nowadays.)
This article explains the way of the world back then pretty adeptly.
Ok, so most of America, (not just the ladies

) was sold on the ease-of-use and convenience and that means more people can go more places, and now we're getting more and more extra distractions in the vehicle, DVD consoles, SAT-NAVs, bluetooth setups, etc., none of which actually encourage people (despite the warnings in the car's manuals which people ignore anyway) to actually do what they're supposed to do while they're driving, i.e. keep their eyes and attention on the road, their mirrors, and reading potential upcoming hazards all around them. Does this abundance of distracted and less concentrated drivers make the road a safer place? Hardly.
Essentially taking the wheel of a car is putting you in charge of a 1 - 4 tonne weapon, and you should exercise the same due caution as would be expected to if you were handed a Colt 45 or Glock 9mm. You'd hardly want to have a pistol marksmanship contest where the participants were busy holding a cell-phone conversation with one hand, and shooting with the other while balancing on one leg and checking their hair / teeth / stubble / makeup or whatever in the mirror at the same time, would you?
Well, at least if you're going to, let me know and I'll be sure to make certain I'm as far away as possible from wherever it's taking place!

I'm not trying to imply that everyone who drives an automatic is like this, nor that no-one has ever tried to wrestle a full-sized slurpee cup & a Big-Mac while rowing their own gears, just that it's a helluva lot easier in one than the other, and that we, as human beings aren't renowned for our ability to stay focused and resist temptation when it's made all the more easy for us not to!
I know this discussion has taken place elsewhere, and there's no reason why a manual driver can't be similarly distracted, as I know
Danoff has certainly attested to elsewhere, but when you're actively engaged in making sure you're in the correct gear, putting the clutch in when you stop, etc., it does mean for the most part that you can't drive half-assed like many people that're seen on the roads with their left foot up on the dashboard or poking from the driver's window, thus obscuring their view of the side mirror and clasping a cell-phone to their ear with one hand, hardly a picture of focus and concentration on what should be their primary task of driving.
For those of you who seem to be under the impression
Danoff is anti-manual because he can't drive one, I can assure you that's not the case, he's just being realistic about what is going on in the market within his country of residence and with emerging technology and showing a willingness to adapt to it. It's his view (and one he's entitled to as a manual driver that's competent enough to engage heel-toe downshifts) that essentially the changing of gear by having to engage an extra pedal and move a lever sometimes many times a minute do distract a driver from the business of driving in somewhat the same way that changing a CD, answering a call or reprogramming a SAT-NAV would, and thus a modern automatic or ideally a fast double-clutch box which doesn't require you to remove 1 hand from the steering wheel each time you need another gear adds to the connectedness with the driving and direction of the car.
There are some of us that just prefer the feel of a manual over an automatic or DSG, and I'd maintain that it truly does become an unconscious reflex action to depress the clutch and select another gear, rather than a distraction, but in consumer terms we're a niche market and in terms of selling cars we're not going to be the first point of focus for a company that wants to make ends meet by selling a lot of cars. It's not that the companies can't or don't make manuals, it just doesn't make financial sense for them or the buyer to build, for example, a Chrysler Town & Country with a diesel engine and a 5-speed manual gearbox for the US, when the demand and the supply from the competition is all typically V6 gasoline + automatic minivans, and yet, you can get this in other parts of the world e.g. UK, Philippines, (albeit as a Chrysler Grand Voyager in the UK) because the demand for such is there.
No matter how mystical you like to portray the ability to manual shift.. fact is most people can do it, and they do it as second nature, its not difficult to make fast progress on a manual, its a reflex reaction most drivers do have.
Possibly in the UK where most people can and do learn in a manual shift car, and you're rightly penalised for learning in an automatic by being issued an Automatic Only Licence.
However, there are some absolute horrors on the road that shouldn't be allowed out there because they've never grasped what seems to come to you and probably most people you know as a reflex action. These folks would either be better off with an automatic so they can concentrate on the road instead of what their feet / hands are doing, or better still, get the bus!
This passage from Wikipedia on the Automatic Transmission page alludes to this too:
Wikipedia
Most cars sold in North America since the 1950s have been available with an automatic transmission. Conversely, automatic transmission is less popular in Europe, with 80% of drivers opting for manual transmission. In some Asian markets and in Australia, automatic transmissions have become very popular since the 1990s.
Vehicles equipped with automatic transmissions are less complex to drive. Consequently, in some jurisdictions, drivers who have passed their driving test in a vehicle with an automatic transmission will not be licensed to drive a manual transmission vehicle. Conversely, a manual license will allow the driver to drive both manual and automatic vehicles. Examples of driving license restrictions are Croatia, Dominican Republic, Israel, United Kingdom, some states in Australia, France, Portugal, Latvia, Lebanon, Lithuania, Ireland, Belgium, Germany, Pakistan, the Netherlands, Sweden, Austria, Norway, Hungary, South Africa, Trinidad and Tobago, Japan, China, Hong Kong, Macau, Mauritius, South Korea, Romania, Singapore, Philippines, United Arab Emirates, India, Estonia, Finland, Switzerland, Slovenia, Republic of Ireland and New Zealand (Restricted licence only)
Sadly in the US it seems that you can be taught to drive in a car with a stop & a go pedal, a steering wheel, some mirrors and some turn signals (though the use of the latter 2 seems entirely optional once you've been issued a licence, as does remembering anything about rights of way and lane discipline!

) Right after doing this you can go out on the road, unassisted and with no prior experience and get in everyone's way while you learn to use a clutch and gearshift, while it's most certainly not "second nature" to do it.
There are plenty of drivers out here that want and enjoy driving a manual vehicle, but again in marketing terms they're a minority compared with the people who don't necessarily want to enjoy driving in any way, but still want to be enabled to go places. (See my points above.)
To anyone that's ever been taught or has tried teaching someone else to use a clutch and manual shift, it's undoubtably a longer, more complex and frustrating process of clutch-torturing, herky-jerky starts, over-revving, bouncy starts like a kangaroo, and countless stalls at take off or coming to a stop, than teaching someone to drive an unstallable stop-go automatic, and there's little wonder that with no additional incentive to learn manual that many people in the US don't. That's fine, for the most part the majority of people aren't interested in driving a car as quickly as possible and needing the perfection of a race-critical, rev-matched downshift or lightning quick upshifts in their day to day lives, especially as stricter legal requirements and draconian speed limitations make it more and more difficult to find good stretches of road to enjoy, and hence what's marketable prevails which nowadays with a focus on being ecologically and environmentally sound means the proliferation of CVT and high-tech 6,7,8-speed automatics that've gone a long way to eliminate the jerky shifts and fuel-guzzling nature of bygone autoboxes.
It does leaves plenty of choice of wonderful old manuals out there for those of us that want them to choose from, and, as has been so rightly pointed out here already, when we're all in that wonderful position of being able to buy a brand new Lambo / Porsche / Ferrari then we can start to pester them for the true manuals we'd like instead of their faster and more efficient flappy-paddle Dual-Clutch setups just because it suits us better.
Basically the only way to get the choice that
Gil was talking about is to ensure that you're out there buying a brand new manual car as often as possible (I've done my bit this year!

) and encouraging others to do likewise so the demand is visible. Sadly in US you'll probably find that it's a losing battle, since as the demand for autos / DSGs goes up, so the unit cost comes down, and that argument that tends to keep Europeans in manuals, i.e. the lack of willingness to part with the extra cash for an auto-equipped equivalent vehicle, goes out of the window as the auto becomes the default option and cheaper to produce than the slow-selling niche market manuals.
Demand speaks for itself, and is evidenced by many reviews and statements, such as this for the new US-spec Fiat 500 from Car&Driver, and the last line is particularly telling:
Car&Driver
An automatic is available, of course. It’s an Aisin six-speed added to the lineup exclusively for the U.S. (In Europe, the only option other than the manual is a single-clutch automated manual that was promptly shot down by Fiat’s American ambassadors.) Fuel economy drops off dramatically with the automatic, to a Fiat-estimated 27 mpg city/34 highway from the stick’s 30/38. The automatic is smooth but not particularly sporty. It does have a manual shift gate, but it upshifts on its own at redline anyway and downshifts with no more enthusiasm than would a 1985 Ford Econoline, so there’s little other than a desire to delay upshifts and burn more gas to encourage drivers to shift for themselves. Still, Fiat expects 90 percent of customers to opt for the autobox—the car may be Italian, but those buyers will still be American.
On the face of it, posting on an internet forum or having a bunch of unlicenced teenagers petition a manufacturer isn't going do anything to save the manuals.
Only by voting with your dollars/pounds/pesetas/Euros/Yen or whatever in a
new-car market will your voice be heard.
So get out there and buy fellow manual crusaders!