sorry, I do this a lot... there still are conversations I haven't got back to in months...Okay so we're moving on I guess. Dem striped panties
And kenny out of nowhere dismissing our conversation.
Yeah, I agree, it's just merchandise. But having a dakimakura and using it the way it was intended to be used is weird to me because I (and I think most people) still have that perception, that you are somehow replacing the need for a real human with a pillow depicting a fictional character. In a sense, it's logical. Far less investment goes into a pillow compared to a real person. Both financial and emotional investment. But then you become full blown otaku, hikkikomori, no life, etc. That's the perception anyways. They're also a rather expensive merchandise so I wouldn't wanna put them to use and possible risk getting them dirty.See, I don't see a difference between buying a figure or buying a pillow. To me it's just merchandise. Compare it to sports fanatics. If I were to buy a bobble head of my favorite player or a pillow of my favorite team, no one cares. But switch it to anime, and oh my god, it's creepy as hell. No it isn't. And to sane collectors there is absolutely no difference. Buy what you want and don't fear judgement. You know what you like and you can still be a normal and functional member of society without being some weird creep. Such an odd stigma that definitely shouldn't be an issue in a thread like this which is geared to anime fans.
Also, a Vice video about a Miku fan:
。。。that you are somehow replacing the need for a real human with a pillow depicting a fictional character.
Interesting question. Maybe it's caused by a general assumption that, you're either this or that. You either have a girlfriend or you don't and have a body pillow to make up for your lack of girlfriend.You're not the only one with this sentiment, but why does the pillow replace a real girl (or boy)?
Pillow is nice to cuddle with, but it's lacking at the very least a few key anatomical features and it's conversational ability is shocking. The amount of beer I have to drink in order to have a good conversation with my pillow is prohibitively expensive, I just can't afford that much booze every day.
Also, how many girls can you find that are okay with their boyfriends having a body pillow, honestly? Maybe in the western world where people are more open, you might find a few, but I doubt you'll find any in places where things are more traditional such as Asia. (I am sad )On the other hand, if you have pillow and girl, what's not to like? Best of both worlds, imo. Sleeping with girl and pillow is like a threesome without the drama.
Most probably not. But I did not get a girlfriend because I can't afford one. (Financially speaking, I don't see them as items) I can barely support myself. Instead I might get something to make up for it, like a body pillow.Does anyone really dump their girlfriend just because now they can afford a pillow?
Also, how many girls can you find that are okay with their boyfriends having a body pillow, honestly? Maybe in the western world where people are more open, you might find a few, but I doubt you'll find any in places where things are more traditional such as Asia. (I am sad )
But I did not get a girlfriend because I can't afford one.
So don't judge me as some sort of weird pervert when I have a clear distinction between fantasy and reality. Thank you. And the reason I didn't engage in the last in depth multi-page discussion you guys had is because it has been had time and time again but I felt this was something that needed an actual response to.
Also I may make posts about Asuka that seem weird but they are for laughs. Remember some of us are here to just have fun and goof off.
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A body pillow is something nice to cuddle, but really it shouldn't replace a human being.
It's probably easy to remember, but sometimes it can be quite tempting for some people to do much more than having it as merchandise.
Shocking.I would have said the opposite. My European girlfriends would have probably gone with it but looked at me very funny. My Asian girlfriends would have shrugged and carried on (and probably asked me to get them one too, actually).
Just comparing Australia and Japan, the two places I've lived the longest, Australians are WAY more uptight about anything even moderately sexual than the Japanese. It's basically Victorian era England over here, except with beach girls in bikinis. Which is so backwards I don't even know where to start.
Not like how you put it, lol. I don't even think of having a girlfriend because I don't have the disposable income to go out, shopping, eating out, the usual stuff. Or rather my priorities are messed up. It's family > hobby > self > others for me.How does that work? "I think you're really nice and I'd love to go out with you, but I just can't afford it"? This has to be a culture thing, right?
I'm not sure about that. Maybe some are a bit desperate? I guess it's just fulfilling their pleasures that's more convenient than a real person.And so my question was, why would anyone think that it did?
Is there something wrong with that? It's their money, in their house. Whats it to you what people do with their stuff?
Would you be happier if they'd just bought a sex toy?
I'm not sure about that. Maybe some are a bit desperate? I guess it's just fulfilling their pleasures that's more convenient than a real person.
Yeah, that's understandable.
Well, I don't own a body pillow but I would have the same reason I said earlier. I don't get what you're askingYou persist on trying to make out like it's the person buying the pillow whose perceptions are warped.
I'm talking about YOUR perceptions. Why would YOU think that it would replace a girlfriend, because we've got no evidence that owners think it does (well, not the sane ones anyway) and a whole lot that YOU do.
I think I've read an article somewhere (or was it a video?) of a dude marrying his, uh... anime character thing, I can't remember. But hey, whatever floats your boat.
you can still be a normal and functional member of society without being some weird creep. Such an odd stigma that definitely shouldn't be an issue in a thread like this which is geared to anime fans.
Mmmmmmmmmmmm. Aya as herself. That's a waifu there.
the Japanese military and medical institutions’ greatest evils, like the orchestration of mass rape, the use of slave labor, and experimentation on live and conscious human beings, remain absent from school textbooks.
The Wind Rises is just one film, but it echoes an entire country’s obsession with misremembering a deeply painful and extraordinarily violent past. Japan’s wartime victimhood is a convenient lie its citizens have told themselves for decades. That the aging Miyazaki has misguidedly lent a patina of wistful beauty to that lie is a shame. The Wind Rises ends the illustrious career of a treasured visionary on a repellent, disgraceful note.
I never into Turn A Gundam.
Well, I don't own a body pillow but I would have the same reason I said earlier. I don't get what you're asking
I'm trying to point out that there's nothing wrong with the people that buy body pillows, they know what they want and go out and buy it. It then theirs to use however they want.
There's everything wrong with the people who judge them for what they buy for personal use and how they think they might be using it in the privacy of their own homes. You.
If someone wants to buy a giant Yoko pillow and take it home to have pretend sex with it, what is your problem exactly?