Some of mine:
- People who say they can do nothing about their weight are just lazy, eat better and exercise.
For a while now I've held the belief that people think the mind is "magic" and that behaviors can be easy to change. I'm not convinced. We give a break to people with mental health issues like depression, but I don't think it's accurate to look at things in a binary on/off manner. If someone complains about themselves and does seemingly nothing about it, maybe they have a problem.
I know when it comes to me, I don't actively try to be myself. I don't really have a choice. This goes for the good and the bad. I'm wired a certain way, and changing some parts of my behavior could take significant effort and even require external forces.
I'm not going to say that "lazy" people deserve tons of pity, but I do wonder about the best way to approach them.
Their choice, not mine. Creating a child generates a debt of responsibility. If adulthood is reached with even exemplary parenting having taken place, no more than a zeroing of the debt has been achieved, in my opinion.
I agree. Becoming a parent should never be taken lightly. If you decide to go through with it, you should realize that you are forcing someone to live without their consent. The resulting person owes you nothing at no point in time, and that is the mindset you should have while raising that person.
I personally would devote energy to caring for good relatives, but I wouldn't assume that my own children would want anything to do with me once they are self sufficient no matter what I do for them. If they do, it would be a pleasant surprise.
- VR looks like another gimmick and is not the future of gaming.
As it's new, it is being gimmicktized, but it can easily be an extremely important innovation. View control in flight sims for example is extremely important, and tying your view to your head would be a great step up in realism, controls, and immersion. It's not perfect though and won't be until virtual touch is introduced. Without a tactile element, there is a disconnect between senses which can be off putting.
•Having the widows down is better than using the air conditioning in a car.
I don't know what you mean by better, but having the windows down always annoys me. One of the first things I did upon getting a CFD program was to run simulations showing the benefits of using the A/C on fuel economy (which was the main argument my parents deferred to when I complained about open windows). My simulations lined up fairly well with sources I found online that showed that A/C was slightly more efficient at highway speed.
Beyond that it's less noisy, and doesn't leave a direct line for road debris to follow into your face. I will never lower the top on a convertible.
Girls should not feel they have to wear makeup if they don't want to.
Heels should be banned. They mess up feet. My mum knows this too well.
I don't like makeup or heels, but I think people should be able to hold onto whatever normals they want. Like anything else, makeup can be a common interest or focal point around which friendly/familiar interaction can take place. I've never really been into small talk; I prefer to share in activities, so messing around with how you look would be more fun for me than sitting in chair and making shallow conversion. I agree with you that no one should feel that cosmetics are mandatory, but I think it's also important to point out that they aren't the villain. Social expectations are, and they should be done away with.
One point on heels though, I tend to equate them with stuff like sports injuries. I honestly don't see why people want to go into a ring and injure each other. I can appreciate that boxing is a competitive sport like any other, and trying to outfight someone else would be an interesting challenge, but I would never willingly try it in reality.