Don’t try to pass that off as an apology. It isn’t one.
If I used the word "apologise" then it's an apology. There's no subtext with me. I also had the night to sleep on the conversation and realised that they possibly weren't the most
subtle of comments. So yes, I apologise, but you'll understand if I don't feel it necessary to retract the comments, as it was genuinely how I was feeling
at the time.
Incidentally, I've read the last few pages that've gone on whilst I've been out all day, and you've been making some much more considered and well-illustrated points, which is something I didn't feel you were doing yesterday.
Now, I know you think if you stick the phrase “being a” in front of an insult it makes it ok. So, you’d have no problem if I aid you were being a complete a**hole then right? Hypothetically speaking of course.
You're right, I wouldn't have a problem 👍 In the end they're pixels on the screen from someone I don't actually know, and I've been called a
lot worse, to my face, by people I do know
^^ Those are an attempt, by assuming the conclusion, to claim that the problem is my own competence. So is the following:
The questions I asked weren't assumptions on your skill, they were questions to bring out a little more info, as it's confusing to hear someone say that something they're adept at is a distracting process. You also mentioned shifting mid-corner, which I'm inclined to assume was just a mis-type, as I'm sure you know as well as I do that shifting mid-corner is to be avoided.
Incidentally, when an auto shifts mid corner, it
is distracting because it catches you by surprise. In a manual, you can plonk it into the gear you want before the corner and it stays there.
As I touched on further up, I actually found the rest of your reply to me to be well-written and more realistic than your previous conversations with me. For this reason, I don't feel I need to reply to any of it, and I can simply nod and accept it as your opinion 👍
That said...
Everything you do in a car, every single action you perform, is taking some small amount away from your awareness of the drivers around you. That’s my point, and I think that’s a position that’s almost impossible to disagree with.
...I still disagree with this, for the many reasons I've already mentioned, which can be summed up by saying that personally, I don't find any of the components of actually driving the car (steering, gears, pedals) distracting. At all. My familiarity with all of that deals with the driving, which leaves me free to concentrate on the road, my surroundings, and other external factors.
So alas, I fear on this matter we'll have to agree to disagree and leave it at that. I'm going to sit back and observe from this point, as I've already been swallowed into this thread more than I intended.
Fin