That's pretty bad. I never had my shifter lever pop into gear like that in my real car. So it feels like cheating to me instead of simulating.
Why it's double cheating, because each gearbox type has its positive features and negative features. Personally I find automatic transmissions to be pretty bad, as you have less control over your car as your car will always have a clutch engaged even when you don't desire torque being transferred to the wheels.
Also @
VBR I said that it's not like GT5 and 6 where you need to reshift over and over again, didn't I? Or are you that incapable of using a manual car as Englishman (very hard to believe)? If you can drive a real car with manual gearbox effortlessly, than you won't have issues now. Unlike in that PD game where I too have issues with 2nd gear.
On your question about flat shifts. If the type of gearbox in the car your driving supports it (i.e. makes it possible by its design), than sure it will be possible to flat-shift... clutchless shift... etc.
Again about shifts from WMD... standard mode is used in all other modes except in the full realism mode I think. So in the end you guys can go either way.