I'm just saying there is more than one ways to attack, and more than one reason to retaliate. I'm glad you're so certain that you or the US would never attack in this particular situation, because I am not so sure I would do the same in that instance. This puts me in the interesting position where I might attack under those circumstances, but you are absolutely certain that you or America would never.
I'm not so certain that America would never, but I would never find it justified. Were America to do that I'd be pretty pissed off at this country.
I'm surprised to hear you say that you'd be willing to attack another country for natural resources. It's quite good of you to be that objective about yourself.
Let's make it a smaller example
Say you live in country X. Country Y has tons of water, but your country does not. Your country imports most of its water from country Y because you've been lazy and haven't set up your infrastructure to account for the amount of water you need.
Country Y decides to stop selling you water. That means that some of your citizens will die if you don't get more water than you can give them soon. Does that justify attacking country Y? Does that justify claiming that country Y is killing your citizens? No. It means you didn't prepare well enough and now your country is paying the price... Personal responsibility.
Let's take another example.
You buy a gun from a gun dealer (you have no past history of crime). You go kill someone with that gun. Does that mean the gun is at fault? The dealer? No the fault is yours... Personal responsibility.
One more.
You're starving. You have no job because you didn't try to get one / try to get the skills necessary to get one. You have no money and no food. Some other dude who planned ahead and has a job has plenty of money and food. Does this justify you attacking him to take his food and money? No.... Personal responsibility.
That last one is socialism in a nutshell. You are a socialist. That is why you think it would be ok for you to steal oil from another country if you really really needed it. Socialism is based on need, your way of thinking is based on need. Whoever needs money/food/oil/healthcare should get it. That's at the very core of the socialist concept.
That's the very core of why socialism is wrong. Not only does it ignore basic human nature, it just plain isn't fair or justified.
So you see, when you get down to ideology mine prevents me from attacking other country to get oil and yours tells you you should. Pretty ironic I would say.