I'd love to know how you can set up a car in GT based on real life settings. ABS 0,3,5 etc mean nothing to me. Long time since I played it but even setting the correct tyre would be a pain. Soft,medium and hard are a subjective value when trying to tie them down to a down tire value.
Fact is I think, that GT offers a huge range of grip values and by trial and error you should get a good approximation of the real world settings. But I think you will have to tinker with the values to get it.
ABS 0 makes a lot of difference, more closer to raw experience, if you check the last few post of no ABS guide thread, there's a member mentioning about ABS 1 or above helps to stabilize braking process by auto blipping the throttle, while ABS 0 do not ( I always blip the throttle on my own when driving anyway to help with trail braking - even more so when the rear loses balance ).
As for the tires, I always believe that comfort represent real world tire best, sports hard grips too much - I would compare it to soft compound semi slick track day tires. Comfort soft would fit well within high performance street legal soft compound tire or hard compound street legal semi slick track ready tires.
I have a DVD video with some Japanese tuner car/driver lapping Suzuka with soft compound semi slick, the cars are above 400HP, some reaching close to 600HP, one of them was raced at Super Taikyu. The inboard camera shows the speed of the corners and how easy these cars loses grip quickly - sudden rear slides -not progressively at times. I am guessing similar speed and grip level would be close to comfort soft.
Here is a video of my lap practice, this it the closest one I find to be similar with the real life Suzuka video - I wished I can upload it, but I will need to cut the video, edit it - it's a DVD disc. In the mean time this might give some rough idea of how much grip comfort soft tire has - seems perfect for me.
Amuse 380RS Superleggera at Suzuka with comfort soft and 9/6 BB, no ABS, time is aorund 2:22s. A realistic hybrid with only twin turbo kit added, everything else are as they were, tuned the LSD + suspension only.
Another version of the same lap with hood cam and external view :
Watch till the end - the external cam shows how the car rear end behaves on the first half of Suzuka.