Try starting 5th to 10th on Monza for a while and you'll see
I would like to see people gridded relative to their ability as well, yet that rarely happens. It's the reason I don't want to start mid pack. You usually have some fast qualy times yet not so fast drivers up front. Then you have the low effort qualy yet faster drivers behind. It's not a good place to be in between on a lot of tracks with the way the penalty system works. Any time requirements for qualifying won't fix that.
Fix the penalty system and the problem goes away. Then the correct people get put in the correct rooms according to SR and you don't have the problem of dirty blockers slow racers up front with impatient fast racers behind. The order will still be mixed up, yet when the front defends fairly and the back shows some patience everything will be fine.
Anyway first thing that should have been fixed a long time ago, invalidate the lap time when going outside track limits, penalty or not. You might as well learn to drive on the actual track while qualifying
I don't really believe in hot lapping for practice. Imo it conditions people to stick to one line which causes a lot of incidents in races. The car handles differently as well in the race, brake points are different especially when behind another car. The best place to learn to race is in the race. Now, I'm not opposed to requiring people to complete the track experience before unlocking a track in sport mode. People should at least know where to brake and where not to brake. It's amazing how a lot of people (with qualifying times) don't know the basics...